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Quilted Messages

From flowers to email, we have many ways of sending a message to a loved one. If you want to be clever, you might even send a message in a bottle. But I have another idea for you. How about a quilt? Yes, quilts are more than bedding.

Quilters use patterns, colors, and embroidery to send thoughts of love, family, faith, and culture. An old standard pattern still seen today is called log cabin (as shown above).

The design indicates love and warmth in the home. Narrow pieces of fabric are sewn around a center square. The outside strips represent the logs of a cabin while the center square is the fire in the hearth.

Since Colonial times, women gathered to work on large quilts. The activity offered social opportunity for the women with an important outcome. Each member of the group would sew a section incorporating patterns and embroidery that symbolized their best wishes for the newly married couple. These quilts were given to brides to show the group’s support, but also were a vital piece of survival through bitter cold winters. They were used until they were worn thin, patched, and used some more.

During the years of slavery in the United States, guides ushered southern enslaved black people to northern free states. Legend says that quilts hanging on clotheslines held messages for commuters on that underground railway. Guides worked with homeowners who would shelter the groups along the route to freedom. Specially designed or colored quilts hanging on clotheslines indicated if the safe house was indeed safe at that time to enter.   

Church groups continue making quilts for the homebound, caregivers, and members of the parish who need a hug. Upon completion, priests bless the quilts and notes are included to inform the receivers that their blessed gift was made for them with love and prayer.

Quilts have been a favorite bedding option because they are soft, warm, and cozy. They originally were made from scraps of cotton, flannel, wool, or old clothes.

Stuffing also consisted of scrap materials. In the 1950s and 60s, lightweight, washable, and inexpensive polyester batting became popular. Today, quilters use cotton, wool, bamboo, silk, and polyester blends to fill their quilts.

My preference is to use 100% cotton for the top, cotton or a soft product called Minky (see above) for the bottom layer, and 100% cotton batting. I used to do the piecing by machine and the actual quilting by hand. Arthritis prevents the handwork today, so I piece and quilt on my sewing machine.

Most of the quilts I make are lap size. It’s difficult to move a larger quilt through my machine. Here is a pattern I’m working on now. The colors are soft and muted, as my daughter requested.

I usually have a sewing project going on at all times, but I only have time to complete two to three quilts a year. I have too many other activities I enjoy, like other sewing projects, gardening, writing and reading, going out with friends, swimming, and hiking. The quilts I do make are for family, and I pray for these people while cutting, ironing, piecing, and quilting. My hope is that they feel wrapped in my love and prayers.

For more information on quilt messages, see the Smithsonian Center for Folklife and Cultural Heritage, Public!Sale, and the book, Hidden in Plain View by Jacquiline L. Tobin, which I have not read.

©Mary K. Doyle, 2026

Responses to “Quilted Messages”

  1. Under the mask..

    How sweet, Mary!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you!

      1. James Russell

        I really love the content

        1. Mary K. Doyle

          Thank you, James

  2. vermavkv

    What a beautiful and heartwarming post! A quilt is indeed so much more than a piece of bedding—it can become a story stitched together with love, memories, prayers, and good wishes. ❤️

    I especially loved learning about the log cabin pattern, with its central hearth symbolizing the warmth of home. The tradition of women coming together to create quilts for newlyweds also beautifully reflects the strength of community and shared affection.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you. Vijay. I love everything about quilting including fellow quilters. I appreciate you taking the time to share your thoughts, my friend.

  3. Perspectivas Culturales

    Excelente enfoque sobre Quilted Messages. La claridad con la que se exponen los conceptos facilita enormemente su comprensión.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Gracias por tu comentario tan perspicaz y por tu presencia aquí. Que Dios te bendiga.

  4. Phil Strawn

    My granny made quilts, she had around 30 or so and once she piled them on me, I was stuck in bed, couldn’t move.

    1. Vero

      I remember those days!!

      1. Mary K. Doyle

        Vero, I hope your days under a warm quilt were delightful!

        1. Vero

          Thank you Mary. Looking back, they were the best!!!

      2. Phil Strawn

        It got darn cold in an unheated farmhouse, so twenty or so quilts were required to keep you warm and in place. My wife, Momo made all her granddaughters quilts.

        1. Vero

          My mom would hold the bottom layer up close to the wood stove and get them really warm before she covered me at night.It’s hard now to imagine sleeping in zero weather in an unheated house.

          1. Mary K. Doyle

            A warmed quilt sounds so magnificent on a cold night. What a sweet mom you had, Vero.

          2. Vero

            She was the best! She lived to be 94. I miss her terribly!♥

    2. Mary K. Doyle

      What a fun memory, Phil. Thank you for sharing it!

      1. Mary K. Doyle

        I like your wife already, Phil. There’s something about quilters. We “know” each other.

  5. SiriusSea

    So gorgeous … the craft, the history, the colors, the hidden warmth, and the wrapping in blessed memories = beautiful ((( ❤ )))

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Ms Siri. I hope all is well with you.

  6. Indira

    Glad to read about quilts! I can see that the quilt you are making is ‘stuffed’ with love!! Beautiful pastel colour!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Indira. I appreciate you!

  7. mjeanpike

    Wonderful post, Mary. I love quilts and the stories they tell 🙂

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      I thought you’d like this post, Jean. Thank you for reassuring me!

  8. luisa zambrotta

    What a beautiful post! ❤️

    It is fascinating to learn about the deep history and hidden messages behind quilts.

    Your daughter is going to cherish that lovely, soft quilt you are working on.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, dear Luisa. I appreciate you sharing your kind words with me.

      1. luisa zambrotta

        You’re more than welcome, dear Mary!

  9. Rosaliene Bacchus

    Mary, I enjoyed reading about the early significance of quilting during colonial days and seeing some of your own quilts. The quilt work I did in my youth, with scraps from my mother’s sewing room waste basket, became cushion covers.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Your efforts became useful, Rosaliene. Thank you for adding your thoughts on the subject, my friend.

      1. Rosaliene Bacchus

        My pleasure, always 🙂 ❤

  10. ✒️🥣Dorothy’s New Vintage Kitchen

    Lovely quilts, and log cabin is one of my favorites. I love to quilt as well, but don’t do much of it in the summer. As autumn hits, my next quilt will appear in a basket by my chair!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      I hope you show your next quilt on your blog, Dorothy. I’d love to see it.

  11. Outrageous Monk

    Learning about the history behind the log cabin pattern and the underground railroad signals was so fascinating! The idea that every quilt you make is stitched with love and prayers for your family makes your work truly priceless. Beautiful post, Mary! 🧵❤️

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate you taking the time to comment. Blessings to you.

      1. Outrageous Monk

        Always a pleasure reading your posts, Mary! Wishing you a lovely week ahead filled with inspiration! 😊

        1. Mary K. Doyle

          Thank you! And the same to you.

          1. Outrageous Monk

            😊😊😊

          2. Mary K. Doyle

            “)

  12. Michael Sammut

    Amazingly crafted work, Mary.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Michael. Blessings to you.

      1. Michael Sammut

        You’re welcome 🤗. Same to you my dear friend.

  13. Victoria

    So in awe of your artistry, Mary. Quilts are treasures and I feel so fortunate to have an old/fashioned crazy quilt that’s been in the family for nearly 100 years. History I can touch! Thank you for this lovely post today. ❤️😉❤️

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      History you can touch, indeed. How many loved ones snuggled in that quilt. And the best part of a quilt is that it gets softer over time and washings.

      1. Victoria

        That is SUCH a great point, Mary. Sometimes…when I’m putting things away in the linen closet I pause to touch that crazy quilt. I know I should probably put it into a protective bag, but I just can’t. And now, thanks to you, I know why! I like seeing it AND touching it. Love you oodles, Mary! 💝💝💝

        1. Mary K. Doyle

          Love you more, Vicki.

          1. Victoria

            Oh, Mary, You’re making my day. Big hugs! 😊💝😊

  14. balladeer

    My wife will love these!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you! Does your wife quilt?

      1. balladeer

        Not for a long time but this may inspire her to get back into it.

  15. Nancy Homlitas

    You’re quite a seamstress, Mary! Thank you for broadening my understanding of quilting as a historical form of artistry and storytelling. I love the personalization of Jimmy’s quilt! 🙂

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Ah, thank you, Nancy. My nephew was seriously ill last year. I wanted him to find as much comfort as he could.

      1. Nancy Homlitas

        I hope your nephew has fully recovered. Your quilt was a perfect gift for him to be comfortable and warm-then and now! 😁

        1. Mary K. Doyle

          Thank you, Nancy. Jimmy is doing well right now. He’s back to work and feeling fine.

  16. Edward Ortiz

    Beautiful quilts, Mary. Thank you for sharing a little bit of the history behind quilts. I know military spouses, at least in the Army, are very fond of quilts. My wife received one as a farewell gift when we were stationed in Texas.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      How sweet and supportive of the military wives. You all have a strong connection.

      1. Edward Ortiz

        It was sweet, and my wife was very happy. That’s true about the strong connections, especially during deployments. Military families supporting one another is very important.

  17. restlessjo

    Lovely thoughts, Mary xx

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Jo.

  18. johnlmalone

    I love quilts; I watched a woman weaving one over 5 days in the happy cancer ward — and we talked about creativity and healing ; so special 🙂

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Creativity and healing! What a terrific topic, John Thank you for your comment, my friend.

  19. Lauren Scott, Author

    A thoughtful way to send a message, Mary. Lovely post! I was never into sewing of any sort, but my mom and MIL could sew anything. 🙂

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Sewing isn’t as popular as it used to be Lauren. It’s good to know the basics, though, so we can hem, sew a button, and make small repairs.

      1. Lauren Scott, Author

        I can do the basics, which is good, Mary. 🥰

  20. Monkey’s Tale

    I love quilts. I have two made by my mom, and one from my grandmother.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Lucky you, Maggie! I have a few knitted blankets my mother made, but no one else in the family makes quilts.

  21. kagould17

    There is so much love, artistry and meaning in these handmade quilts. They are truly priceless gifts Mary. Have a great evening. Allan

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you for your appreciation and feedback, Allan. I appreciate you!

  22. Ronit Penso Tasty Eats

    A someone with no talent (nor the patience) for sewing, I can only admire your beautiful patterns and precise work! 🙂

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Ah, but, Ronit, I know your patience in the kitchen as you are a master chef.

      1. Ronit Penso Tasty Eats

        Thank you Mary, for such a lovely compliment, but I’m afraid my patience is limited to the kitchen! 😀

        1. Mary K. Doyle

          🙂

  23. joannerambling

    These quilts look good

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Joanne.

  24. CJ Antichow

    Since i can barely sew a button back on, I’m always blown away by these quilts!! Such works of art! And heart!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      CJ, I made the aqua quilt on my queen sized bed all by hand. Millions of little stitches. That was the last hand quilted one because it literally wore out my hands. I do miss that though.

      1. CJ Antichow

        That’s unbelievable! Way to go Mary!

        1. Mary K. Doyle

          🙂

  25. Ilze

    Sweet and beautiful! I would love to have message like this!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Ahhh. Thank you for commenting, Ilze. Maybe someone will do that for you someday.

      1. Ilze

        I think that might be me 🙂 for someone else 🙂 First for myself 🙂

        1. Mary K. Doyle

          🙂

  26. lenny unencumbered

    We have a national quilt festival here in South Africa that’s been going on for 23 years now.
    I also remember a Guinness World Record that was set here some years ago for the largest crocheted blanket made, although I don’t know how much that differs from a quilt.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Crochet is done with yarn and two crochet needles. Quilts are made by hand or machine using soft fabrics. They have a different feel and texture as well as method in making them–but they do serve the same purpose, Lenny. I appreciate you commenting, my friend.

      1. Priestess Sekhmet

        I love crochet quilts! 😍

  27. Lynette d’Arty-Cross

    A lovely post. 😊 It brought back many memories of my mother’s quilt making.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      I hope you still have some quilts from your mother, Lynette. It would be filled with her love and energy.

  28. Hazel

    I was seriously reading until I saw feet.🤩😍 Well, that’s one of my favorite photos or angle. I’m sure they feel your embrace and love using those quilts, Mary. Amazing!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you for taking the time to comment, Hazel. I’m sorry that I don’t understand the part about feet.

      1. Hazel

        I just love your feet in your photo in one of them here.

        1. Mary K. Doyle

          Oh, my gosh! Thank you for pointing that out, Hazel. I cropped the photo and will be more careful in the future, maybe.

          1. Hazel

            No….I love that. No need to crop. I always post my feet or toes in my blogs that’s why I spot scenes like that. Please don’t change it.

          2. Hazel

            It’s a compliment for me, not a critique.🙏 Toes and feet are all welcome for me😍 I love it.

  29. Rakesh K. Singh

    A quilt made with prayer is more than a blanket, ma’am.

    A message in a bottle may travel across the sea. And, a quilt can travel across generations.

    Both carry something precious, but, a quilt lets you sleep under the message. 🙏

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Rakesh! That sounds like a beautiful poem. I love your line that a message in a bottle may travel across the see, but a quilt can travel across generations. Thank you!

      1. Rakesh K. Singh

        Thank you so much, ma’am.

  30. Michael Watson PhD

    Marvelous!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Michael.

  31. melaniemcgauran

    Wow. I never knew that specific quilts hanging on a clothes line were signals that the house was safe for enslaved black people traveling north in search of freedom. That is interesting. I like that you build in a lot of love and prayer in your own quilts. Thanks, Mary.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you for your thoughtful feedback Melanie. I appreciate you taking the time to comment.

  32. Stephanie

    Such kind craft work, and I love that detail about the messages quilts have often historically carried.

    Many years ago (when AOL was the whole internet practically, lol) I was part of an online community of mothers, one of whom was struggling with her son being diagnosed with a terrible illness. A member gathered cloths from everyone and made a beautiful quilt. Brought her a lot of comfort to always have that symbolic hug at hand.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      What a beautiful story of love and compassion, Stephanie. That is the magic of quilts.

  33. Awakening Wonders

    You are so right every stitch carries a piece of history and a silent language of love. The fact that you pray and pour such intention into the quilts you make for your family turns them into true heirlooms – tangible pieces of your heart wrapped around the people you love. 💖💖💖

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Mary. Quilts are a major investment of love and time. Have a great weekend.

  34. Lina Valkema

    What a sweet and incredible hobby! I did not know thta quilt making was rich in history and love :D. Thank you so much for sharing!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      I appreciate your comment, Lina. All the best to you.

  35. Looking for the Light

    quilting ran in my gramps family, with many sisters tacking up the craft.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      I hope you have one of those quilts, Melinda. I know how much your grandparents meant to you.

      1. Looking for the Light

        I gave them to charity since i wasn’t using them. not my style of derating. but i have great memories of granny making them

        1. Mary K. Doyle

          I’m sure the people who received them loved them.

  36. Dawn Pisturino

    These are beautiful, Mary! My aunt is a master quilter.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Oooooo. I admire your aunt’s skill and patience, Dawn. I’m not that.

  37. Priestess Sekhmet

    Thank you for sharing how the quilts were used with safe houses. I love quilts.🩷🙌

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts!

  38. Lori Pohlman

    Quilts (and their makers) are such cherished creations! How wonderful you are a creator! I have been extremely lucky and have been gifted 5 quilts in my lifetime. They are worth more than I can express. ❤️❤️❤️

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      It’s wonderful that you appreciate the gift of the quilts. Someone invested a large amount of time and energy, as well as expense, in creating them. I hope you use the quilts, Lori, and feel great comfort from them.

  39. Garden Bliss

    That’s such a lovely review of the history of quilts, Mary. I did not know about the embedded messages. I must dig out my fabric and start a project.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      I’d love to see what you do with your stash of fabric, Flavia.

      1. Garden Bliss

        You have inspired me, Mary. 😊

  40. Dan (Tai Chi Reset)

    I did not know the center square of a log cabin block was meant to be the hearth fire. That changes how I will look at every one I see from now on. The part about women gathering around one large quilt since Colonial times is a good reminder that the making was as much the message as the finished piece.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Exactly, Dan. Thank you for reading and understanding. Have a great weekend.

  41. P. J. Gudka

    Quilts are so beautiful and it’s such a wonderful gift to give those you love.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Pooja. I hope your weekend is enjoyable.

      1. P. J. Gudka

        It’s been great, thank you. Hope you’re having a lovely weekend too.

  42. Rebecca Cuningham

    I admire your quilting very much. Are all the photos your quilts? Wonderful designs.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Rebecca. Yes. The quilts I show are all ones I made.

      1. Rebecca Cuningham

        You have a real talent, Mary. They are beautifully patterned and made.

  43. Cindy Georgakas

    Wow, these are beautiful, Mary and the time and energy that go into them are so incredible. There is nothing like a quilt that holds us and warms our spirit that is such a tradition and metaphor for all of us! xx

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thanks so much, Cindy. Love to you.

      1. Cindy Georgakas

        You’re so welcome and back at you! xx

  44. Dan (Tai Chi Reset)

    You are very welcome. I appreciate the warm send-off. It is interesting how the act of gathering to sew creates a rhythm that is almost meditative. The shared focus on the needle and thread likely built a sense of community that outlasted the physical object itself. I will keep that in mind next time I sit down to stitch.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      That’s great, Dan. I looked at your site. I used to do tai chi, so I’ll have to watch one of your videos when I get some time.

  45. Dan (Tai Chi Reset)

    Nice that you used to do tai chi; the slow, deliberate motions can translate into a steady rhythm of stitching. I hope you find the videos helpful.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Dan. I’m sure I will enjoy the video.

  46. Dan (Tai Chi Reset)

    Should have put the link in that last one. Day one is the full session, free, nothing to sign up for: https://taichi.silentdirectivellc.com/sample?src=marydoyle It is all seated, so it works from an ordinary chair.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Great!

  47. Dan (Tai Chi Reset)

    Thanks for the kind words. Glad you’re looking forward to the video. When you watch it, notice how the rhythmic stitching mirrors the steady pacing of a quilt’s pattern, each row builds on the last, creating a cohesive whole. That continuity can help keep your focus steady while you work.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you!

  48. Praveen Yadav

    Superb

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Praveen.

  49. Praveen Yadav

    Welcome my dear friend Mary.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Praveen. I appreciate you.

  50. gc1963

    What a beautiful way to bless people – a quilt made with love and prayers. The history about quilts is very interesting too. All the quilts are beautiful. You are so talented. Thank you for sharing Mary.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you for your thoughts, Geeta. And thank you for your kind words.

  51. Susana Cabaço

    I love them, and I love even more the idea of incorporating blessings and love while sewing them! We miss that warmth as a “modern society,” don’t we? Thank you for this revival of love and art, Mary! Truly enjoyed! Light and blessings your way, always, dear friend! ✨🙏💖🌻🌈

    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog

      My sentiments exactly! I also love the idea that they were communal, sometimes worked on by several women – how wonderful!! xx

      1. Mary K. Doyle

        Me too! Social input into loving one of their own. Thank you, Linda.

        1. The Mindful Migraine Blog

          🙂

    2. Mary K. Doyle

      What a show of support and community. Thank you, Susana. I appreciate your feedback!

  52. Dan (Tai Chi Reset)

    Great! I’m glad the link caught your eye. Your post’s description of the way the quilt’s edges echo the rhythm of a conversation really resonated, each seam feels like a pause before the next thought, giving the piece a quiet flow.

  53. Dan (Tai Chi Reset)

    You are very welcome, and I appreciate your thank you. When piecing together intricate blocks, taking a moment to press your seams as you go can make a world of difference. It keeps the fabric flat and ensures your final pattern aligns perfectly.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Well, I have to admit that aligning perfectly has yet to be.

  54. Anonymous

    Mary, thank you for this beautiful reflection. The line about church groups quilting for the homebound stayed with me. I spend my days building technology that helps older adults live independently at home, and one thing I keep learning is that the hardest part of aging at home is rarely the practical stuff. It is the quiet feeling of being forgotten by the world outside the front door. A quilt made by familiar hands says the opposite: you are still part of us, we are thinking of you, we spent hours on this. That is a message no gadget can deliver. It reminded me that care is often less about solving a problem and more about a tangible ritual that reaches someone where they are. A warm blanket, a regular visit, a handwritten note. Small things, repeated, that tell a homebound person they still belong to a community. I am grateful for quilters like you who understand that. Alex Qi

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Alex, you are so correct in your evaluation. When my husband was in the midst of Alzheimer’s, a friend’s mother croctheted a shawl for me. Now, long after my husband has passed away, I still am comforted under that shawl. It’s the little things in life that are most cherrished. I appreciate you taking the time to read and comment. You add a great deal to this post. I hope to see you here again. Blessings to you.

      1. Anonymous

        Thank you, Mary. I hope to be back.

  55. katiesencouragementforyou

    This is wonderful!! My mother and sisters quilt–and I love each of the quilts I or my children have received from them. They are truly heirlooms!! God bless you as you bless others!!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      The best part is that you appreciate all that went into those quilts and enjoy them. Thank you for taking the time to comment, Katie. I appreciate you.

  56. Dan (Tai Chi Reset)

    That is the hardest part of piecing blocks, and mine still wander sometimes too. Honestly, a clapper or a heavy wooden iron can work wonders on stubborn seams that refuse to lie flat. Sometimes the threads just need a little extra convincing to settle where you want them.

Talk to me. I’m curious about your thoughts and comments.