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Poem–They Came by Boat

They Came by Boat

They came by boat–poor, hungry, and desperate
no first-class comforts for them, only steerage 
alongside jumping lice and scuttering rats
in the crowded, dark, cramped, and stifling cabin.

Six to ten people in a 10-foot-wide bunk
spreading an array of deadly diseases–
cholera, dysentery, typhus, smallpox. 
Nearly twenty percent died on the voyage. 

Under those dire conditions, they sailed for months
while turbulent weather tossed the ship about.
And when they landed, the real challenge began–
to find shelter and earn a reasonable wage.

It was the late 1800s when they sailed,
more than 14 million from Europe alone.
My ancestors were among the immigrants
who prayed the sacrifices would be worth it.

At 13 and orphaned, Gustav, stowed away
on a boat from Germany to the U.S. 
He learned book-binding to support himself, and
later, his young wife, Clara, and two daughters.

Rosario carried his wife, Maria,
and their newborn son off an Italian farm.
They caught a ship destined for a better life, 
prospered, and raised nine children in America.

John left Ireland for gainful employment
only to be met with discrimination 
β€œNo Irish Wanted.” β€œNo Irish Need Apply.”  
He married his Lizzie and had ten children.  

My great-grandparents needed more, hoped for more. 
They sought solutions to the hardships they faced.
With their courage and endurance, they thrived
in this vast country of opportunity.

I look back and wonder how things would have been
if they remained in the countries of their births.
Would they have survived the adversity they faced?
How would life be now for their descendants?

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Photo #1: Gustav and Clara are on the far right
Photo #2: Gustav as a young man
Photo #3: Maria and Rosario
Photo #4: John at 39 years of age
Photo #5: John’s wife, Elizabeth (4 from the left), and their 7 surviving adult children. Three children died at the age of 3 years old.

Β©Mary K. Doyle, 2025

Responses to “Poem–They Came by Boat”

  1. Escribir Y Sanar

    Your story, They Came by Boat, is a poignant and powerful tribute to the resilience, courage, and sacrifices of immigrants who sought a better life despite unimaginable hardships. Through vivid imagery and historical detail, you paint a compelling picture of the struggles they enduredβ€”from the grueling voyage in steerage to the discrimination and challenges they faced upon arrival.

    What makes this piece so moving is its personal connection; by weaving in your ancestors’ experiences, you bring history to life, making it deeply relatable. The final reflection on how their choices shaped the future of their descendants adds an emotional depth that lingers with the reader. It’s a beautiful reminder of the strength and determination that built so many families, and ultimately, the fabric of nations.

    Fascinating story! Thank you for sharing.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you for that incredible comment. I am thankful for your insight and recognition of the poem. I spent a lot of time on this one. I’m fortunate to have those photos.

      1. Escribir Y Sanar

        Those are precious memories🫢🏻✍️
        Have a wonderful evening.

  2. Phil Strawn

    A real story about real families that came here to be an American. My family came from Scotland in the early 1800s, settling in PA. Some came to Texas, and some then to CA. They were grateful for the chance to be an American. Thanks for a great read.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Can you imagine the amount of hope and courage our ancestors had? And what different life styles your ancestors chose between PA, TX, and CA. Thank you for commenting. I appreciate you.

  3. Tony

    Wow Mary, that’s “post”!! It’s powerful, it’s touching and it reminds us how precious the world is in peace. Out of respect for all these people, we should tell these stories in every primary class around the world!
    RESPECT!
    Thank you for all this, Mary.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Tony. I agree. Have a spectacular day.

      1. Tony

        Good day Mary, take care of yourself.

        1. Mary K. Doyle

          You too, my friend.

  4. Dorothy’s New Vintage Kitchen

    What a beautiful poem Mary! The story of so many of us. Sometimes, I’m amazed they survived and we all ended up where we are!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Right? They were in a no win situation, and yet, here we are. I appreciate you, my friend.

      1. Dorothy’s New Vintage Kitchen

        I appreciate you too my friend! Keep posting those lovely thoughts!

  5. balladeer

    Wonderful post!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you for reading and commenting. I can’t imagine being so desperate. Our ancestors had great courage.

  6. Anonymous

    Many relatives of ours including my mum ‘s brother Argyros and her sister Elli emigrated from Cyprus to the US.. A lot of them fiirst went to Detroit and opened grocery shops. Elli s husband was a dentist in Norfork Virginia and Argiros became a doctor through the US army but died in his thirties from blood cancer.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Your family legacy is impressive. They took all their disadvantages and fought their way through them. I appreciate you responding and adding to this story.

  7. Anonymous

    What great pictures, Mary! Now you are carrying on their legacy. Wouldn’t they be proud?!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      I do hope my ancestors would be proud of their descendants and the appreciation for their efforts. Thank you for commenting.

  8. Violet Lentz

    It was my great grandparents but a similar story. Ireland and Italy.
    This is a story of all of our heritages just depends on how far back you go. And what country you represent.
    This is and always should be the story of America. Thank you for telling it so beautifully.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you for your thoughtful comment, Violet. I appreciate you reading and responding in such an insightful way.

  9. Monkey’s Tale

    Wonderful poem Mary. My great grandmother did the same to come to Canada from Ireland. Maggie

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      They literally were starving to death in Ireland. It was a terrible time. Those who stayed fought for survival in their own ways. Thank you for adding to the story, Maggie.

  10. Nancy Homlitas

    Your poem describing the hardships of immigrants from years ago and how they took advantage of opportunities here through hard work is inspiring. Do some citizens from birth become too complacent? Thank you for your poetic reflections, Mary. πŸ™‚

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      I do think we who were born here expect everything to be perfect. Thank you for taking the time to comment. You’re the best, Nancy.

  11. LoveLifeHappiness&MoreπŸ’™πŸ’™

    Wonderful poem, Mary!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, T’.

      1. LoveLifeHappiness&MoreπŸ’™πŸ’™

        My pleasure.

  12. Looking for the Light

    Yes, America was build on the backs of immigrants. Native Americans were here first but the influx of people help build cities and businesses and more importantly the foundation of who we are today. However I’ll keep my thought on illegal immigration to myself. πŸ™‚

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Looking back on my family history I see the struggles no matter which way they chose to go. It was difficult for most everyone back then. Love to you, Melinda.

      1. Looking for the Light

        It was but that’s what America needed if we were to become a country. Now the situation is very different and we can’t even balance our own budget. Both sides on that aurgument are right and wrong.

  13. restlessjo

    There has always been hardship, Mary. So much luck involved in the accident of birth. But they strived so hard, and appreciated what they had. I don’t know how well we would fare these days.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      So true, Jo. I know Portugal had many struggles through its history. Now, we go and see that incredible country but think little of the people who fought to make it so.

  14. Neal Saye

    Wonderful meditation for today, Mary. Thank you.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Neal. Take good care of yourself.

  15. festo_sanjo

    I think we, the new generation, forget how lucky we are to be in such a worry free and safe environment. We induce self fears that are insignificant because we are stuck, addicted to fast-paced life that only leads to chasing the wrong things. Your ancestors really had to face their challenges head-on because they had no options. It was life or death… and through their resilience, it made it possible for the flourishing of their lineage.. great poem, Mary.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, dear Festo. You truly grasp this and the predicament of people who emigrate. Few truly want to leave all they know behind. Hugs to you.

  16. Ernie ‘Dawg’

    This was a very good poem to read Mary, but after reading it I listened to the audio and it brought it home for me. Great pictures of your family.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Ernie. Someday, I’d like to do research on the other great-grandparents to find when those lines came to America. I appreciate you reading through all of it, listening, and commenting. Have the best day, my friend.

  17. kagould17

    Great homage to the hard working immigrants that built your nation and mine and instilled their values in our family, Mary. My paternal Grandma came over from England as a 2 year old and her family lived in a canvas tent for the first winter and then a sod shack for the next two. My Grandpa came from Scotland and homesteaded in Manitoba, building a successful farm that is still in the family today. Both of them survived the Dirty Thirties and lived to a ripe old age. Immigration forms a nation. Happy Wednesday Mary. Allan

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you for sharing your impressive family history, Allan. I can’t imagine spending a winter in a tent. All the best to you.

  18. aquinoaa2272

    Thank you for sharing 😊

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Welcome! It’s great to see you on Midwest Mary.

      1. aquinoaa2272

        It’s great to be back Mary 😊😊

  19. Rosaliene Bacchus

    Thanks for sharing your immigrant story, Mary.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Rosaliene. I have so much more to learn. I only know three of my 8 grandparents’ journeys.

  20. johnlmalone

    this is a wonderful story, Mary; a tribute to those amazing ancestors; beautifully curated — and that tantalizing, unanswerable question: how would it have gone if they didn’t make that long, arduous voyage?

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      I do wonder about that. Some did survive the stay in Ireland. You are in Ireland, aren’t you, John? I sometimes wish I was there now.

      1. johnlmalone

        I was never in Ireland, Mary but my my dad came from there. I like the good old Irish songs. I don’t feel ‘the pull’ to go over ; I’m an Aussie, I love this country. Been overseas a few times mainly to the U,S and South East Asia. I wrote a poem once — it’s on WordPress – called ‘Lost Horizons’ about a country I really did want to go to — and still do, just a little —

  21. joannerambling

    It took some courage and inner strength to pack up and move to another county with very little in hope of finding a better life, this doesn’t only apply to people in the past but even today there are those who still do this

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      I don’t think most people really want to leave their language, customs, family, familiarity, church, etc. They have to be desperate to take on such a venture.

  22. Stephanie

    What treasures, these photos. Well preserved and exuding personality.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Stephanie. I love these old photos and am happy to have them. Thank you for commenting. How is the packing coming along?

  23. philsblog01

    A wonderful story, well told, well preserved! Bravo Mary!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, my friend. We all have a story how we got here.

  24. Awakening Wonders

    A beautiful poem and the photographs are real treasures! The style of dress and expressions on faces are such as interesting study of the times.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Aren’t they, Mary. I wonder why they didn’t smile? Were they afraid of the camera? Did they not smile often?

  25. mistermaxxx08

    Strong poem and respect. My ancestry tree is a bit complicated as you know

    Never the less everybody in America is a guest and that part has been forgotten because of politics. Appreciate you sharing

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      So true, Mister Maxxx. We all came from somewhere else and have stories of how and why we came.

      1. mistermaxxx08

        It’s rewarding and appreciate you sharing

        1. Mary K. Doyle

          Thank you, Mister Maxxx. All the best to you.

  26. Eternity

    Thanks for your like of my post, “Christ And Pre-Kingdom Jews – PtΒ 9;” you are very kind. Your post is very good, and very interesting. I love the black and white photos; they add immensely to your story.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you for taking the time to comment. Have a blessed day.

      1. Eternity

        Thank you very much.

  27. Edward Ortiz

    Wonderful poem and story, Mary. One thing we don’t often mention is the level of discrimination the Irish faced when they came to the U.S. Some of the historical accounts I’ve read were pretty brutal. Thank you for sharing because it’s important for us to remember the past.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Yes, sadly, our country was founded on discrimination against anyone who wasn’t white, Anglo-Saxon, and Protestant.

      1. Edward Ortiz

        You’re absolutely right, and it’s amazing that throughout our history, we’ve only had two Catholic presidents, both of Irish descent.

  28. hubertprevy

    Somehow, I can relate to immigrants. While some may have been intrepid adventurers, seeking the thrill of the unknown and an escape from boredom, more often than not, they were simply fleeing even greater hardships than those they might have faced in the U.S. The circumstances they left behind were often far worseβ€”not just economic struggles, but also disenfranchisement, social exclusion, and humiliation at the hands of the ruling elite and establishment.

    For some, the U.S. may have been a challenging place to live, but for those who had already known true hopelessness in their homelands, it must have felt almost like paradiseβ€”a place where hardship still existed, but at least opportunity was within reach.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      You understand this well, Hubert. Thank you for commenting.

  29. arlene

    Wow! I only get to read something like this in books Mary. Their faith ans resilience paid off. Beautiful and inspiring.😍

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Arlene. This is a common American story. Have a wonderful day, my friend.

  30. AdjunctWizard

    My family has similar stories. I am so glad they came and occasionally am amazed that they did. I imagine the historical wanderings of people to places they have never been. The why(s) and longing for the better. Thanks, Mary.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Yes, especially in America, we all have those stories. I’m sure it wasn’t ever easy.

  31. Amy

    Thank you, for sharing these precious photos and the moving stories behind.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      You are very welcome, Amy. Wishing you a wonderful day.

  32. FlowIntoWords

    Wonderful read, Mary. To become an American required bravery and hope from our ancestors. I really enjoyed how you personalized that journey here.

    I have ancestors who came to America in the 1600’s all the way to ones who came in early 1900s through Ellis Island. We can be quite a mix.

    It always shocks me when I watch something about medieval Europe or older and I realize…oh wait this is where my ancestors were. As Americans it feels we are very cut off from the past.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      How amazing that some of your relatives were here in the 1600s. I hope you have many stories about their arrival. I’m trying to preserve some of our family history, as my mother did, so my children know the struggles and perseverance of their ancestors.

      Thank you so much for adding to this conversation. I appreciate you.

  33. Laura

    This is so excellent, Mary. I love this bit of history into your family and the story you told, it’s amazing where we come from ❀️ Hope you are well, many hugs your way

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Hi dear Laura, We all have a story. It’s amazing how we survive and thrive. Hugs to you!

  34. P. J. Gudka

    I loved the poem and loved learning more about your family. It’s so important to remember your roots and how hard your ancestors worked so that we could have the life we have today. Sometimes people forget that they didn’t just magically end up where they were, their ancestors migrated so that their offspring could have the opportunities they didn’t.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Exactly, Pooja. Humans have been migrating since creation. I’m sure everyone would rather be happy and fulfilled in their homeland, but it often isn’t possible. Thank you for commenting. You are always supportive.

      1. P. J. Gudka

        Yes, I think people migrate because they don’t have other options not necessarily because they want to.
        You’re most welcome.

  35. Dawna

    What a beautiful story of overcoming fears of the unknown and setting out for what they envisioned, a better life. I am touched by each of their stories and how they put one foot in front of the other and set out for the adventures of a lifetime and like you, I wonder what life would have been if they never took that first step to a new life, a new world and a new adventure.

    Hugs and love to you my friend.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Dawna. I do see these ancestors as brave souls. Talk about trying something out of our comfort zones! Love to you, my friend.

      1. Dawna

        They’re certainly more brave then I could ever even imagine to become. Love to you too my friend.

  36. Sarah

    What a great poem! I came across it while waiting for the carpet cleaners to get here! It’s so interesting to read about their hardships and how they maintained hope. Definitely makes me think about my own ancestry and how their choices impacted future generations. Thanks for sharing this!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Sarah. We all have a story. Humanity has been migrating since creation.

  37. Darryl B

    😎 Great post, Mary, thanks for sharing. What I find interesting is that these old sepia pix somehow make us feel as though their world was monocolored, dull, lifeless somehow. If you can imagine them in vibrant color, maybe even the sounds and smells when the pic was snapped, it makes them so much more relatable. Kinda like the scene from β€œDead Poet’s Society.”

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      You make an interesting point, and it is something I can imagine you write about in a poem, Darryl. Perhaps their lives were monochrome, predominantly work and little play. They didn’t smile in a photo.

  38. Garden Bliss

    I love how you’ve woven this story with such hope – it is the story of so many of us. My parents and grandparents as refugees from Europe as well. A poignant reminder to never forget their incredible journey so we could have so much hope.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Migration is a part of humanity. There are many valid reasons for doing it, but all present different challenges. Thank you for adding to the discussion, Flavia. I value your input.

  39. Thobile Simelane

    Powerful powm

    The ancestors’ journeys are a testament to their courage and resilience. The vivid descriptions of the harsh conditions they faced on the boats and upon arrival are heartbreaking.

    Their stories are a reminder of the sacrifices made by so many immigrants seeking a better life. It’s incredible how they thrived despite the challenges and discrimination.

    Thank you for sharing such a powerful piece😊❀️

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Thobile. I appreciate your thoughtful comment. All the best to you.

  40. Dawn Pisturino

    My husband is third generation Italian-American. My ancestors came over in the 1600s and early 1700s.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Wow, Dawn. I’m sure your ancestors had many stories coming to the New World. Blessings to you.

  41. Cindy Georgakas

    What a lovely poem documenting the accounts of your families perseverance for a better life, crammed in those boats, sailing with ungodly disease.

    Such story of resilience and fortitude and making their way for a better life. Wonderfully read and written, Mary! I love all of the photos as a keepsake for your family. So well done.

    πŸ’—

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Cindy. I appreciate your thoughtful comment and compliment. Your feedback is important to me. Have an incredible day, my friend.

  42. Destiny

    a beautiful tribute, Mary … 🀍🌷

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you for reading and commenting, Destiny. Blessings to you.

      1. Destiny

        pleasure…and blessings your way too, Mary…πŸ€πŸ™

  43. noga noga

    😍Always wonderful, sweetheart, good morning and happiness πŸ™πŸ»πŸ’ž

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, dear Nougat. Love to you.

      1. noga noga

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  44. Ritish Sharma

    Their stories are so inspiring, can’t even imagine how tough their journeys must’ve been. You’re so lucky to have such a rich family history. Thanks for sharing this heartfelt piece with us ❣️

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Ritish. We all have a story. It’s interesting to learn how we end up where we are. Thank you for reading and commenting.

  45. noga noga

    The most beautiful morning on your eyes Mary πŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ»

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Nougat.

  46. noga noga

    The story is really influential, but they went. Greetings, Mary, for you and your brave grandfather, may God sanctify their souls

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you for your thoughtful comment, Nougat. Blessings.

  47. PrayThroughHistory

    Wonderful story!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you! Welcome to Midwest Mary.

      1. PrayThroughHistory

        Appreciate your diligence and commitment!
        I’ve been on a research intercession project for 13 yrs, and sometimes it’s tough w/ out seeing how the Father is working through others!

  48. vermavkv

    Very inspiring story.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, my friend.

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