Midwest Mary

Remember the days when we weren’t certain as to what to do with our lives? If we were lucky, a natural progression of abilities and opportunities led us to our career, one that fulfilled our heart and wallet. We may even have had fabulous mentors to guide us and open doors.

We often hear stories of someone’s efforts to identify their potential in a vocation or career. They experienced self-doubt about their abilities or alignment with what it takes to succeed.

Decades later, older friends and family members came forward to say they always knew that person would become a successful teacher, mechanic, computer technician, or author. But how helpful would it have been if they were told that in the years when they struggled?

Recently, at Mass, my pastor, Father Ryan Browning, asked whether we knew of a young man who exhibits qualities of faith, leadership, and a heart for service. If so, we were to submit their name and contact information. The suggested young man would be sent a letter of encouragement from the bishop, resources from the Office of Vocations, and an invitation to discernment events in consideration of a path to the priesthood.

Father Browning said that when he was younger, he thought and prayed about the priesthood, and periodically, someone would ask him if he was considering the vocation. The right people were there to offer him guidance.

At one point, a priest friend asked Father what was holding him back from becoming a priest, and he said he had some debt he needed to pay. The friend then asked if he didn’t have the debt, would he enter the seminary? To Father’s surprise, he quickly responded, “Yes.” Just like that, he knew for certain what he wanted to do.

Father said he has no regrets about his calling. Even on the difficult days, he’d rather be a priest than do anything else. Walking in faith with people is an awesome experience, and he feels privileged to serve in this way.

Perhaps you hold the key to a young person’s fulfilling career or vocation choice rather than a job that simply pays the bills. You know the questions to ask a young friend who is looking for direction. You may even have valuable contacts or information to share with them.

Why not speak up now rather than in the distant future when all is clear? Your words can change the destination of someone’s life.

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Photo: Trees along the Fox River, Geneva, Illinois. Notice the high river water and the flooded park.

©Mary K. Doyle, 2026