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Advocate for Your Health

For some, good health is given. For others, like me, itโ€™s hard-earned. I exercise and maintain a healthy diet. I see my doctors and follow their guidance, for the most part. I also investigate alternative remedies that my body tends to tolerate better.

In my opinion, most American doctors today follow a set response to symptoms. They donโ€™t think creatively. If our symptoms arenโ€™t rectified by ticking off their particular list, we are out of luck, unless we can do some of the thinking for them.

For example, I had been seeing doctors and having tests for decades for chronic pain and illness, but no one picked up that I had a form of Lyme disease. It took a functional medicine doctor sending my blood to a specific lab for tick-borne illnesses. Her herbal treatments were difficult to get through because the tick-borne bacterias I carried were deeply embedded. In the end, I was tremendously better, at least with those symptoms.

My blood pressure was also high for nearly a decade, and the smallest amount of stress pushed me close to a dangerous point. Physicians told me I had to get it under control. The high pressure caused constant headaches, my kidneys were shrinking, and I was at risk of a stroke. I already had a series of TIAs (Transient Ischemic Attacks, or small strokes) while caring for my husband.

Medications and alternative treatments either caused an allergic reaction, reduced the blood pressure to dangerously low numbers, or were ineffective. Over the last year, I also struggled to breathe. I felt as if I was being smothered.

I went through a series of specialists–neurologist, nephrologist, cardiologist, and finally a gastroenterologist–all of whom took months to get an appointment with, ordered tests, and then recommended another specialist.

Throughout all of this, I continued to advocate for myself. I read everything I could find and begged physicians to help me figure out the root of my symptoms, to think beyond the typical protocol. I didnโ€™t simply want another prescription and sent on my way, as was the way with a hiatal hernia that showed up on scans over the last ten years. Every doctor wanted to prescribe medication for acid reflux, which I did not have.

When I visited the cardiologist, he ordered an MRI of my kidneys, because the kidneys help control blood pressure. The test showed that the hiatal hernia had increased in size. Then I went to the gastroenterologist, and I pushed for an endoscopy to look further at the hernia. This was the turning point I needed.

The doctor who performed the test said my stomach was in my chest, pressing on my heart, and pushing my left lung to the side. I needed surgery as soon as possible. That got the ball rolling, and I had surgery on March 11th.

There were a few risks for surgery due to my high blood pressure and a vascular disease that I have that restricts blood flow (fibromuscular dysplasia), as well as a long list of allergies.

In addition, the surgeon said that the situation was more severe than the tests showed. Nearly my whole stomach had attached itself to the heart and left lung, pushing the lung to my side. The Type 3 paraesophageal hiatal hernia was also entangled with critical nerves and arteries. (Note in the image below that the stomach should be below the liver and above the intestines.)

Amazingly, the surgeon was able to perform the surgery robotically, working through five small incisions and expanding my chest with CO2 gas to allow greater space to operate. I got through surgery without complications, and I immediately had relief with breathing. Every doctor told me that the hernia repair would not lower my blood pressure, but now it is perfect.

If you are not receiving answers for your health concerns, donโ€™t give up. Do some research, seek other physicians, and push for different tests.

And if you have a hiatal hernia, have it checked periodically, especially if you have symptoms that disrupt your daily living. The surgeon said that had I waited much longer, Iโ€™d have required emergency life-saving surgery with an uncertain outcome.

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ยฉMary K. Doyle, 2026

Responses to “Advocate for Your Health”

  1. CJ Antichow

    Wow youโ€™ve been through a lot Mary, good for you for advocating though! Imagine all the people who are not, or donโ€™tโ€ฆhow that affects outcomes ๐Ÿ˜ฉ

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      This makes me sad for those without healthcare or the ability to persevere and investigate. Thank you, CJ. I appreciate you.

      1. CJ Antichow

        Thank you Mary, I appreciate you and knowing you as well โ˜บ๏ธ

  2. Victoria

    Mary…I knew you were dealing with some health issues last month but had no idea about the details. Thank you for sharing here – powerful testimony about the importance of being a self-advocate, despite how exhausting it can be (on top of everything else). What you said here about medical professionals, well intended, perhaps — but flawed, truly resonates:
    “If our symptoms arenโ€™t rectified by ticking off their particular list, we are out of luck, unless we can do some of the thinking for them.”
    Sending loads of love to you. And big hugs, too. ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, dear Vicki. I debated about if and what to say about it all but always want to inspire and offer hope. Sometimes, we need a push to keep taking that next step forward. Love to you.

      1. Victoria

        I am certain sharing your story and your valuable insights will absolutely help others, dear Mary. Big hugs…big, big hugs! ๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ˜Š๐ŸŒธ

  3. vermavkv

    This is a powerful and deeply inspiring account. Your courage, persistence, and unwavering self-advocacy truly stand out. Despite years of uncertainty and struggle, you trusted your instincts and kept seeking answersโ€”and that made all the difference.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      It surely did, my friend. Thank you for your compassionate comment.

  4. Looking for the Light

    You’re right on the money! If you don’t fit their criteria they don’t look out of the box. It takes special doctors and they are hard to find. Thanks for sharing, it will help others understand the medical landscape, and how important it is to advocate for yourself.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      You know all of this better than anyone, Melinda. You are always advocating for yourself and your audience, and I appreciate you.

      1. Looking for the Light

        Thank you so much. Is you email showin g on your site?
        I’ve put a list of people I want to interview. More detail than Blogger Highlight. Depending on how much time you have is how many questions you answers. At least 10 and there’s no time crunch, you can work on as it fits your schedule. I want to highlight the books you have written, and what was happening in your life at the time published. I’m interested in a different slant. I know your community will enjoy learning more about you. What do you think????? ๐Ÿ™‚

        1. Mary K. Doyle

          Thank you for thinking of me, Melinda. That would be wonderful: marykdoyle@att.net.

          1. Looking for the Light

            Great! We start moving on Mon day. I’ll start working on questions and it may take a week or so to send them to you. You can help me, of the books you’ve written what is your favorite or favorites. That will help discuss those books. Thank you.

  5. Louise Dimiceli-Mitran

    Great writing, Mary! Yesterday my oncologist told me sheโ€™d like to bottle my energy around keeping myself healthy and give it to her other patients! Theyโ€™re not exercising, taking the supplements she recommends with the meds, or doing anything. Iโ€™m so glad for your excellent outcomes and celebrate this with you! Love! Louise

    Louise Dimiceli-Mitran, LCPC, MT-BC, FAMI Rhythms Within PLLC Counseling & Music Psychotherapy louisedmitran@gmail.com 773-426-3142 http://www.louisedmitran.com GIM Trainer Therapeutic Arts Institute

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, my dear friend. You are an incredible mentor to me. I admire your self-care and level of compassion and understanding.

  6. arlene

    So sorry to hear about your ailments Mary. I hope your doctors would find the right cure for all of it. Including you in my prayers.๐Ÿ˜˜

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Arlene. Prayer is everything, the most powerful remedy of all. Hugs.

  7. Nancy Homlitas

    I’m sorry you had to deal with so many health issues for such a long time! Your proactive involvement in improving your health is admirable and takes self-discipline. Doctors have many patients and can’t always devote the time needed to research unusual cases. That’s why being your own advocate, as you have been, can be life-saving. I’m so glad you’re feeling better, Mary. ๐Ÿ™‚

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      You offer an important point, Nancy. Healthcare today is run by corporations. Physicians don’t have the time to care for patients as they once did. It’s not their fault that much is missed today. Thank you, my friend. I appreciate you taking the time to read and comment.

      1. Nancy Homlitas

        You’re welcome. Mary. ๐Ÿ˜โš˜๏ธ

  8. Stephanie

    Good for you, Mary. So glad you listened to your intuition to keep researching and pushing to follow through. I’ve also dealt with chronic health issues for decades on end and have learned well that doctors are not going to care ‘enough’ to really break through most situations.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Hello Stephanie, I wasn’t sure I’d write about this, but do feel that I wasn’t alone in such a journey. Don’t give up, my friend. Keep talking, thinking, reading. Maybe together we can spark some action to help you. I’m sorry you are suffering.

  9. kagould17

    You are preaching to the choir Mary. My wife has been advocating for her health so long, it seems forever. The good news is we do have an MD. who listens and who thinks outside the box. The problem we run into is the referrals to specialists. They are given as required by our MD, but actual access takes forever. 154 weeks from referral to knee replacement for instance. At some point, you have to make a decision about paying out of pocket. Not everyone can do this however. I hear you on Lyme Disease diagnosis. We have a friend who had Lyme Disease, but diagnosis took forever. What happens to all those folks who trust the system and wait patiently for help that never comes? Happy Wednesday Mary. Allan

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      I’m sorry Patty is also in this situation, Allan. In the US, many don’t have any healthcare and so are limited to options. It’s very sad, indeed. Hugs to both of you.

  10. DimmaJo Blog

    I am here Mary praying for you and believe me everything will be alright

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Dimmajo. I believe those prayers were key to a successful turnaround with my health. I appreciate you!

  11. luisa zambrotta

    Dearest Mary, you’ve been through a lot, but congratulations on defending your health with courage and perseverance.

    I found your story powerful and deeply inspiring, and so I thank you very much for sharing it.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, dear Luisa. I hesitated writing about this but did want to offer hope to those in similar situations. I’m now hearing how common it is. I’m sorry for your troubles and send you love and prayers.

      1. luisa zambrotta

        Thank you so much for your love and prayers, dear Mary. Prayer is one of the most powerful remedies. Hugs.

  12. philsblog01

    Mary I am so glad you are tending to your health. Self Care is vital Many fine medical professionals are afraid to leave the script due to lawsuits and regulations.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      You make a great point, Phil. Medicine is very different today. I understand many older doctors left medicine during COVID. In addition, our older population is growing. That is why we do have to do some of the legwork. Thank you very much for reading and adding to this critical story.

      1. philsblog01

        My pleasure. Thanks for sharing Mary.

  13. Under the mask..

    ๐ŸซฃHoly mack’rel, Mary! I’m so sorry for your sufferings all these years and your recent surgery! Glad you and your med personnel finally have a decent handle on some of the care needed.๐ŸชปI should have my husband read this; he’s the quintessential “good patient” of old.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      I know that patient! My parents never asked questions, and they were college-educated. They just did what the doctor said. We all have our stuff to deal with but do need to put in some of the work. Thank you for taking the time to respond. I truly appreciate you.

  14. Violet Lentz

    Oh my goodness Mary! I feel almost guilty not being able to share some of this burden with you.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Oh, my dear, Violet. I do not want you to hurt in any way. That would hurt me more! Love to you.

  15. Monkey’s Tale

    Oh I’m so sorry to hear all of this Mary, but thank goodness you finally figured it out. Sending you gentle hugs for a speedy recovery. Maggie

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Maggie. I hope with all of your international travels and adventures you take precautions against infections and diseases. I’m sure you’ve learned the magic of that. Perhaps you might write a post on how best to accomplish this. Thank you for commenting my friend.

      1. Monkey’s Tale

        I’ll have to think about what we do to stay safe, but I don’t think we have any special techniques. Feel better soon. ๐Ÿ˜Š

  16. mjeanpike

    Wow, Mary, I’m glad you finally got the right answers. Prayers for complete healing ๐Ÿ™‚

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Jean! You’re the best.

  17. SiriusSea

    Mary โค … Your journey reads like a winter finally giving way to bloom, all that persistence, all that self-advocacy, turning into breath, clarity, and light again. There’s such courage in the way you kept searching for answers, and such hope in the healing that followed. Your story feels like spring itself: a reminder that life can open back up, even after the longest season. ๐ŸŒฟ๐Ÿ’› Love always, my gorgeous friend! God Bless You!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Exactly, Ms. Siri. We can’t give up. I feel tremendously better. Amazing! Love you much, my friend.

  18. myallaboutyou

    Mary I am glad you found someone to listen. Every time I go to the doctor they feel they have got to prescribe something. It is like they donโ€™t really listen. Glad you are doing well.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      How about it! Is is that they want to offer a quick fix because the public doesn’t want to do any work? I wonder. Thank you for chiming in with your important commentary.

      1. myallaboutyou

        โ˜บ๏ธ

  19. Michael Sammut

    One can only try to imagine what you have been through. What a great mentality, great perseverance. I am glad you are feeling better and thank you for sharing this incredible experience.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you for your kind response, Michael. My goal is to inspire and promote hope. Hugs to you, my friend, and incredible photographer!

      1. Michael Sammut

        You are most welcome my dear friend and thank you for the compliments. Sending hugs across the miles.

  20. Dawn Pisturino

    I agree with you about doctors. Some seem so closed-minded. And they tend to dismiss women as hypochondriacs and complainers. Sounds like you’ve been through a lot.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Yes, so true, although I understand the constraints on physicians today. Unfortunately, the younger doctors are trained this way today. Thank you for commenting, Dawn.

  21. โœ’๏ธ๐ŸฅฃDorothy’s New Vintage Kitchen

    I’m glad you are finally getting the right answers. Unfortunately, most western doctors are taught to treat illnesses, not prevent them, which is one reason why we’re in such a pickle healthwise in this country. Most type II diabetes, for example, can be prevented with diet and exercise, and not just counting carbs either.
    My son-in-law went for three years with undiagnosed Lyme disease until a naturopath and herbalist had his blood tested at a third lab, and it came back positive. Such a shame.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      You are absolutely correct, Dorothy. You would think that at least the insurance companies would be the ones pushing prevention. As consumers, we have to be the ones who take our health in our hands, teach ourselves about prevention and research. But not everyone is capable of doing this. Thank you for your presence here, my friend.

  22. Surabhi Parashar

    Hello Mary,

    I wish you a speedy recovery. I have haital hernia and mild blood pressure too. Your post made me think about my symptoms and I am going to take my health more seriously now. Thanks for sharing your personal journey. Take care โค.

    Surabhi

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Hello Surabhi! Welcome. Please do check on that hernia periodically, especially if you are noticing an increase in symptoms. I wish you all the best.

  23. joannerambling

    It is so frustrating when doctors play pass the patient because they feel the patient’s medical problems are too hard

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Yes, so true, Joanne. Thank you for adding to this story.

  24. Edward Ortiz

    Wow, Mary, what a journey! Itโ€™s great that you kept pushing for answers and were able to find out what it was. Iโ€™m glad your surgery went well and that youโ€™re feeling better. Praying for you, my friend. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Edward. I appreciate your kindness and prayers, and I hope to be better at keeping up with my friends’ blogs, such as yours

      1. Edward Ortiz

        Youโ€™re welcome, and donโ€™t worry too much about the blog. Rest and recovery are the priorities. Weโ€™ll be around the blogosphere for a while, so thereโ€™s plenty of time to catch up. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ

        1. Mary K. Doyle

          You are always so thoughtful, Edward.

          1. Edward Ortiz

            Thank you, my friend.

  25. Rosaliene Bacchus

    What a medical journey, Mary! I admire your persistence in pushing for answers. I’ve never heard of a hiatal hernia. I give thanks that you were finally able to receive the lifesaving surgery that has improved your health.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      I hadn’t known about this type of situation either, Rosaliene. It’s interesting how life brings us to these realizations. Thank you for your concern, my friend.

      1. Rosaliene Bacchus

        Always with you in prayer, my friend โค

        1. Mary K. Doyle

          Love to you!

  26. Richard Shoemake

    I’m so glad they found out what the issue was, and were able to do something to help. Robotic surgery has so much promise for the future.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Robotic surgery truly is a lifesaver with so much less recovery time. Thank you for commenting, Richard. It’s wonderful to see you here.

  27. Ronit Penso Tasty Eats

    Thanks for sharing your story. It is indeed so important to be as involved as possible. Glad the surgery helped! Best regards. ๐Ÿ™‚

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Ronit. You’ve been on my mind! I made your calamari salad today and am bringing it to a family party. I’m sure it will be a big hit.

      1. Ronit Penso Tasty Eats

        Thank you Mary, I’m very glad to know. Hope you’ve all enjoyed it. Best ๐Ÿ™‚

  28. gc1963

    Undiagnosed ailment is the most anxiety and pain inducing state. I have gone through this twice and I know. I am glad you are well now.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      I do remember that you have had your own health journey, Geeta. I hope you are well now and remain so. Thank you for chiming in, my friend.

  29. capentalc

    I’m glad you got the surgery you needed. I’ve often felt doctors (HMOs) have a detachment attitude when you tell them your illness. It’s like they are trying to meet a quota of seeing as many as patients as possible so they just give you a quick prescription and send you on your way. Take care, Mary.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Sadly, I believe you are correct, Lauren. Modern medicine is a business today. Doctors don’t have the luxury of delving into a patient’s health problems. I appreciate you, Lauren.

  30. K. Ravindra

    Your story is truly inspiring! Active involvement is so crucial, and it’s great to hear that the surgery brought positive results. Sending you warm wishes!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, K. Ravindra. Your kindness is greatly appreciated, my friend.

  31. lenny unencumbered

    Wow! That was some ordeal. Glad it was resolved.
    I was diagnosed around two decades ago with a Hiatus Herna and was told that operations were 50% successful. I haven’t done anything about it but had my gall bladder removed about ten years ago. I have infrequent bouts of GERD and am taking medication once a week. It helps.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      GERD is the most common complication, and yes, I also was told that surgery has a 50/50 longevity rate, Lenny. My advantage is my ancient age. I probably won’t live long enough for it to return. Please keep a watch on your hernia, especially if you have more symptoms, my friend.

      1. lenny unencumbered

        Thank you. I just turned 60, but will do.

  32. Cindy Georgakas

    This is a wonderful story of you being proactive and I’m soooo glad to know you had such great results.. It’s amazing what modern medicine and robotics can do, Mary. My mom had a bronchoscopy Wednesday of her lung. Truly impressive what they can reach and access. Hugs and love, Marโฃ๏ธ

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Oh, my, Cindy. My prayers for your mother. Yes, robotics is a game-changer. Remember the days when exploratory surgery was required? Now, we have imaging and less invasive ways to check out what is happening. Thank you for adding your mom’s story to this post, my friend.

      1. Cindy Georgakas

        Thank you dear Mary. It really is. I know its such a blessing. You’re welcome.. hugs my friend๐Ÿ’—

  33. Awakening Wonders

    This is so very true and sad, “In my opinion, most American doctors today follow a set response to symptoms. They donโ€™t think creatively. If our symptoms arenโ€™t rectified by ticking off their particular list, we are out of luck, unless we can do some of the thinking for them.” I’m so glad you are on the road to recovery! ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Mary. I’m on the mend, and I’m grateful to be breathing again!

  34. Lincol Martรญn

    A powerful and courageous testimonyโ€ฆ reminds us how important it is to listen to our own bodies and never stop searching for answers.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Lincol. I’m happy you grasped the point of my post. I sure hope others find swifter resolutions.

      1. Lincol Martรญn

        Thank you for sharing. I’m sure your message will help many others find clarity sooner.

        Hugs.

  35. Praveen Yadav

    “This is such a powerful reminder of why we must listen to our bodies and never stop seeking answers. It’s frightening to think how close things came to a crisis, but your persistence is truly inspiring. Iโ€™m so glad to hear that the robotic surgery was a success and that youโ€™re finally finding relief with your breathing and blood pressure.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you so much, dear Praveen. I appreciate your kindness, my friend.

      1. Praveen Yadav

        “You’re very welcome, Mary! It’s always a pleasure to connect with you. Wishing you continued strength and a wonderful week ahead, my friend. ๐Ÿ™โœจ”

  36. Garden Bliss

    Dear Mary, I was moved by your recount here. My daughter who has MS constantly advocates for herself changing doctors when she feels they are no longer listening – so good on you. ๐Ÿ‘ I do hope your health has settled to a manageable state. Sending many blessings to you. ๐Ÿ’•

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you for sharing your daughter’s struggles, Flavia, as well as your kind words. I’m sorry your daughter suffers. That is difficult for a parent to watch and be unable to make it better.

      1. Garden Bliss

        Mary, I so appreciate your gentle and understanding words. ๐Ÿ’•

  37. P. J. Gudka

    I’m so sorry to hear about your health struggles but very glad that you’re taking care of yourself and doing what you need to. Those of us that struggle with health issues know the importance of checking symptoms with doctors early on and getting our tests done regularly. And I’m so glad you got the hiatal hernia surgery before it got worse. My uncle had the same issue and got a surgery to fix it too. It can get really bad otherwise.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Ooooo. I’m sorry to hear about your uncle, but happy it’s been rectified, Pooja. Thank you for adding to the topic, my friend.

      1. P. J. Gudka

        You’re most welcome and thank you as well.

  38. restlessjo

    Some people seem to have a disproportionate amount of ill health, Mary, but I agree with you that doctors expect your symptoms to fit a tick box and if they don’t you struggle. I’m forever ‘touching wood’ that I maintain pretty good health for my age, but you never know the moment… xx

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      You are physically strong and keep moving, Jo. I admire you. Thank you for reading and commenting, my friend.

  39. johnlmalone

    you take good care of your body: I like that. I listen to my body too, respond to its needs, take good care of it, keep it nourished; we are its stewards —

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Such a great point, John. Our bodies are God-given gifts, and we are their stewards. Thank you, my friend.

  40. The Mindful Migraine Blog

    robotic surgery??? – oh my!!!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      It must be like a video game for young doctors, Linda. I’m happy it worked well for me with less impact than making a complete cut through my chest and abdominal area.

      1. The Mindful Migraine Blog

        yikes – so glad that it lessens the impact – modern science still blows my mind – sending lots of light and laughter your way, Linda xox

  41. Susana Cabaรงo

    You just showed here how important it is to not settle for symptoms, doctors, and diagnostics. To keep looking for alternatives and for a deeper understanding of the situation. Or, as you said, “to think beyond the typical protocol.” This approach is not only important for health issues but also for all other issues in life! Thank you, Mary, for this insightful and encouraging post! Glad that things lighten up for you! Much light and many blessings to you, dear friend! โœจ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ™๐ŸŒป๐Ÿ€

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you for your insight, Susana. You’re right about applying these lessons to other parts of our lives. Love to you!

  42. The Introverted Bookworm

    Such an important post! So sorry to hear about your struggles to get your Lyme disease diagnosed, Mary. Like you, I also have a chronic illness (thyroid disease) that wasn’t picked up on for years, and I lost a lot of my life/time/energy because doctors wouldn’t take me seriously. It can be easy to let yourself be convinced that nothing’s wrong, when you know, deep down, that it is.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      I’m sorry about your struggles, as well, Ada. Thyroid issues can be exhausting. In America, the standard is too high, but most endocrinologists understand the numbers should be lower and will work with patients. I hope you get the care you need, dear friend.

  43. The Introverted Bookworm

    I’m so glad your surgery went okay, Mary. Having a hiatal hernia sounds terrifying; you’re an inspiration to others! ๐ŸŒน

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Ada. I’m significantly better already. Finally!

  44. Jacqui Murray

    Good grief. That is absolutely amazing.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Hi Jacqui, thank you for your presence here.

  45. Ritish Sharma

    I dont know but I feel a bit frustrated… not at you, but at how much people have to fight just to be heard about their own bodies.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Exactly, Ritish. So much is up to us. Thank you for adding your perspective, my friend.

  46. Omayma Omer

    Your story is incredibly powerful and honestly highlights something so many people quietly go through, feeling unheard while knowing deep down that something isnโ€™t right. The persistence you showed in advocating for yourself is remarkable, especially through years of uncertainty, discomfort, and risk.

    Itโ€™s also a strong reminder that health isnโ€™t always straightforward, and sometimes the โ€œstandard pathโ€ doesnโ€™t fit every person. Your experience shows how important it is to keep asking questions, exploring possibilities, and not settling when answers donโ€™t feel complete.

    Iโ€™m really glad you found the turning point you needed, and that the outcome brought you such immediate relief. That must have been both validating and life changing.

    Thank you for sharing this. It will definitely encourage others not to give up on finding the care they deserve.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      You add so much insight here, Omayma. I didn’t want to supply so much personal information but felt someone else could benefit. If we don’t have the ability to advocate for ourselves, we need to ask someone else to help us. Thank you for your presence here.

      1. Omayma Omer

        Hey Mary!
        Thank you for your absolutely wonderful comment, I definitely agree with you. When we canโ€™t or donโ€™t have the ability to advocate for ourselves we need to reach out and connect with the people around us to help us lift ourselves up!
        Making both the bond between ourselves and the people we reach out to special.
        Iโ€™m glad I can share my experiences and perspectives with you๐ŸŒท
        Thank you for your support.๐ŸŒบ๐Ÿฉท

  47. Michele Lee

    Goodness Mary, you’ve been through quite a year already! I’m so glad you persisted and listened to your own instincts and that you have found relief and balanced blood pressure. Your journey is a testament to listening to our bodies and being our own champion. ๐ŸŒผ

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Michele. I’m so much better already! Love to you, Sweetheart.

  48. Sharon’s Writers Tidbits

    Sending healing light and blessings to you. ๐Ÿ’

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Sharon. That makes all the difference in healing.

      1. Sharon’s Writers Tidbits

        You are most welcome , Mary! ๐ŸŒธ ๐Ÿ’

  49. Better with Age – Midwest Mary

    […] Some of this is due to the distance I now have from intense caregiving and more time to care for my own health. The rest is due to medical intervention with treatment and surgery, as described in my last post. […]

  50. Lori Pohlman

    Goodness, Mary, what an ordeal. So very glad to hear that you are doing better! Your advice is appreciated. I hope you are having a wonderful week.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you for your kindness, Lori. The week is going well. The sun is out today, which makes me happy. Blessings to you!

  51. Rebecca Cuningham

    Congratulations on your persistence and resultant better health!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Rebecca. It’s been a long trial, but I do feel so much better than I have in a very long time. Blessings to you, my friend.

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