On the first anniversary of moving into my townhome, I’m acutely aware of my blessings. I’m rich in what matters most in life.
The past year has been relatively peaceful. Marshall continues to do well. My children, grandchildren, step-children, and step-grandchildren are healthy. And I’m enjoying meaningful work to pay my bills.
For many years, my stress level was at a peak. The years previous to this move were intense caring for Marshall 24/7 at home for ten years and then transitioning him to managed care, working through a few disturbing issues with relationships, clearing out the house in preparation for sale, the intrusion of showing the home for two years, negotiating the home sale/purchase, packing to move, and then unpacking in my new home all while overseeing Marshall’s care and working. Countless times I believed I was close to the breaking point.
But here I am, and I’m so very grateful! I’m blessed with a home I can manage and afford. I love the space and my kind neighbors.
Marshall, although always on a decline due to Alzheimer’s disease, calls me by name and tells me he loves me every day. Our time together is typically very tender.
I am greatly blessed with an extensive group of family and friends. They are supportive, attentive, and carry me with their love and kindness. My children and grandchildren especially bring me great joy.
And to top it off, I have work opportunities that allow me to use the gifts God gave me in ways that minister and connect with people dear to my heart. I’ve written two books in my new home, one of which is under contract, and beginning a new one. In addition, I’m speaking regularly, predominately on caring for loved ones with Alzheimer’s.
When we are traveling through the dark tunnel, the journey can feel endless. The rays that do shine through are difficult to see and the number of steps into the sunshine is so uncertain.
The only way out of that tunnel is to keep going. Most often, we enter the light wiser and stronger.
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Midwest Mary 
Wow, what a journey you and your husband are on! Much love and blessings to you both:-) You are both in my prayers.
Bernadette
Thank you, Bernadette. We get through the tough stuff because of the prayers and support from friends such as you. God bless.
You are a blessing to everyone who meets you. You and Marshall have a special love that is a gift from God although sometimes challenging. You know You and Marshall are in my prayers. Much love to you both I know I’ve been blessed
Thank you, Becky. In spite of Alzheimer’s, I always feel loved by Marshall. How lucky am I! Love to you. I’m thankful for your friendship, my friend.
A beautiful piece…so well written. You’ve been through so much but handled it with such grace. I’m so glad your health has improved and you are happy in your new home. You and Marshall are always in my prayers.
Thank you, Marla. Love to you.
MARY, Your letter was very touching to me. I sure many others felt the same. You have been on a life journey of a thousand miles, but you never lost your faith. The world would be a better place if it had more people like you.
❤️❤️❤️ Bob
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Thank you, Bob. I hope all is well with you and Cindy. You’ve had your rough patches as well.
It is great that you have family to help you through trying times.In times of difficulty I. am reminded of the twenty-third psalm beginning with ” The Lord is my shepherd…”. Then I don’t feel alone.
Carol
Yes, Carol. Our faith certainly comforts and guides us. And what a beautiful psalm for you to use. Thank you for commenting. I hope you have the very best day!