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Overflowing Bookshelves

Not including children’s stories, how often do you read a book more than once? Sure, we have reference books we return to for bits of information, but what about the novels, self-help, spiritual, poetry, and motivational books on our shelves?

I pondered this question while rereading a book that’s been on my shelf for decades. The Roosevelt Women by Betty Boyd Caroli is one I read when it was released in 1998. I’m an admirer of the achievements of Eleanor Roosevelt, but I admit, I knew little-to-nothing about the other women in the book.

Now that I’m more familiar with these women and the world events they experienced, the book was tremendously more comprehendible. Unlike the first time when I struggled through the book, this time around, the read kept me engaged throughout. Could this be the way with others on my shelf I’d like to revisit?

When I moved into my townhouse, I vowed not to have more books than what fit on my wall of shelves in the loft, not including books in my office that I’ve written and ones in the wait in my nightstand.

I needed to keep that promise. Books were double-stacked throughout and hanging off the shelves. It was time for me to share my abundance with someone else. I went through the books one by one, dusting and deciding if I’d reread or search through them for tidbits of treasured writing. In the end, I removed four bags of books for donation. May someone else enjoy them.

I have to admit that I enjoyed the process of elimination. So many of my books hold a fond memory, and I want to return to that joy. I also kept books to reread, that offered references on topics I often write about, or were written by friends.

Writers are typically readers because we learn so much by reading. And a happy place for us is where we find books, like libraries and bookstores.

Our books are our treasures. As a writer, nothing would honor me more than to know that someone’s favorite books included ones I wrote.

©Mary K. Doyle, 2026

Responses to “Overflowing Bookshelves”

  1. gc1963

    Absolutely Mary. Books are treasure troves. But the biggest problem is space to keep them. Now, therefore, people are shifting to digital versions like Kindle.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      That’s a good point, Geeta. I just don’t like reading on Kindle because I’m on the computer all day. I also don’t think it is good to be on the electronics before bed, which is when I read for enjoyment.

  2. mjeanpike

    I’m very limited on space, Mary, so a book has to be exceptional to earn a permanent place on my bookshelf. I like to think I might read them again someday but with so many new books to read, I don’t reread books very often. A few months ago, I got an email I am still smiling about. A reader reached out to let me know she had gotten one of my (very early) books at a garage sale and loved it so much she hung onto it all these years! I love the thought of coming across one of my books at a garage sale 🙂

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      How fun was that to know someone loved your book that much, Jean! That’s great!

  3. Victoria

    I love this, Mary. I feel the same way, returning to books I’d once read and finding new meaning in the re-read. I’ve done that every few years with “Watership Down” and I continue to find new layers; resonance related to whatever stage of life/state of being I occupy in the moment.
    This was so perfect, these words:
    “I have to admit that I enjoyed the process of elimination. So many of my books hold a fond memory, and I want to return to that joy.” Yes! I hear you.
    Sending Wednesday hugs! 💝

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      I’m so happy you related to this message, Vicki. Thank you for taking the time to tell me. I haven’t read Watership Down, but now I will have to. So many great books to read in my future!

      1. Victoria

        Oh! If it finds its way into your reading pile, I hope you’ll let me know what you think of Watership Down!
        xoxoxxo! 💝

  4. Monkey’s Tale

    I had to do the same a few years ago. I kept only those that I knew I would reread. But, everytime I go to a used book sale, I end up with another pile! Most of those do get recyled back into the book sale for the next year though. I recongnise the painting on the wall from your post a week or so ago. It looks great there. Maggie

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      I love used book stores. The one near me closed last year, and I miss it!

      Thank you for recognizing the oil painting. My son painted that of the Girl with a Pearl Earring when he was in art school.

      1. Monkey’s Tale

        That makes it even more special!

  5. Ernie ‘Dawg’

    Love how you donated those. I have a small bookshelf now a days and have kept some great [to me] hardback copies. I am into Clive Barker as his imagination is top shelf. I’ve kept a couple of classics like Animal Farm, Alice in Wonderland and a very good read Yes I Can by Sammy Davis Jr. I go back maybe once a year and re-read them.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      I don’t know about Clive Barker but now will have to. And like you, Ernie, I have Animal Farm and Alice in Wonderland. I also have my mother’s Gulliver’s Travels. It is fragile right now, but I remember her reading the stories to me. So magical.

      1. Ernie ‘Dawg’

        Sounds like a collection to cherish. Clive’s book Imajica is fantastic

  6. Nancy Homlitas

    I notice you have old cookbooks on your shelves. I have a tattered cookbook I received 45 years ago as a wedding gift, and I still use a handful of vintage recipes from it. But now I hit the internet for modern recipes with ingredients that don’t include oleo, monosodium glutamate, canned green beans, lard, corn syrup, etc. Haha! 🙂

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Exactly, Nancy. I refer to those books for ideas, but we don’t use those canned vegetables anymore. My sister has an entire bookshelf of cookbooks and reads them like I read novels. I’m like you, my friend. I mostly search online now.

  7. Rosaliene Bacchus

    I hold on to favorite novels and poetry collections but rarely reread them. I’m now running out of space for my non-fiction collection and must make the difficult choice of what to let go and share with others.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      It is tough to let those beloved books go. They are like an old friend, and sometimes, we remember what was happening in our lives when we read them. Thank you for your input, Rosaliene. Have the best day.

      1. Rosaliene Bacchus

        🙂 ❤

  8. luisa zambrotta

    This resonates so much with me.
    I love rereading my favorite books because every time I do, I discover new layers or see things differently than before.
    It’s like the book evolves with us.
    What a lovely post!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      What a great point, Luisa–the book evolves with us. That also shows the craftmanship of the author. And you know so many excellent authors. I appreciate you sharing them with us. Hugs to you, my friend.

      1. luisa zambrotta

        Thank you so much, dearest Mary, for your wonderful words
        Sending big hugs

  9. Anonymous

    Oooh–I am and have always been, a lover of books! My mom loved the fact that as a child, I would sit in the enclosed porch, and read for hours at a time. I couldn’t get enough of them.

    I too in later years, have had to shed some of the books I no longer needed or wanted. I tried the Kindle thing for a while, and it was convenient in some ways. But then after having issues with Kindle several years ago, and they mistakenly deleted all of my 50+ book collection on there, I said to myself, that if it truly is a book I need/want for school and my interests, then I will physically buy them from now on. I’m almost out of room 😂again! It’s a great past time, and I do love also to read a bit before I retire for the evening. Thanks for sharing you love for books!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      I so relate with you! I can’t imagine losing more than 50 books–not of your choosing! That is terrible. Thank you for taking the time to connect with me. I appreciate you!

  10. Klausbernd

    Hi Mary
    We never know if we need to look at a book again. We noticed that we regret every book we sorted out. And it’s also great to go along the shelves in your library and just get a book out for short look. And quite a lot bookish people collect books of certain subjects. We f.e. collect facsimile edition of illuminated manuscript (as we are not rich enough to buy the originals). In this case you want as much books you can get of this subject.
    Of course, we eliminate books as well, usually thematic groups. But the gaps are filled immediately.
    Happy reading. Your library looks cosy
    The Fab Four of Cley
    🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      I understand, Klausberd. It’s the love of the books themselves. I’m at a point where I need to keep reducing my stuff. I know I will have to downsize again in the next few years. Thank you for taking the time to comment.

      1. Klausbernd

        We just reducing our books in the house from 17.000 to about 12.000 titles. We used more than a week doing it.

  11. safia begum

    A great question for book lovers! 📚 Some books are worth revisiting because each reread reveals new emotions, insights, or details we missed the first time. A truly memorable story can feel like meeting an old friend again.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Exactly, Safia. That’s a great insight. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, my friend.

  12. thomasstigwikman

    Yes sometimes a book can be a lot more comprehensible once your experience and insights about a topic has grown. I have several books that are like too.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Sometimes we don’t know enough about the topic to get fully engaged the first time through. Thank you for your presence here, Thomas!

      1. thomasstigwikman

        Yes you are right. Thank you Mary

  13. TheHappyQuitter

    I love books and cannot imagine a home without our bookshelves being full of them—and some knickknacks. However, I have to admit, we had too many and I found a way to downsize a little, giving the books to people who can’t afford them. Some books, perhaps ten or fifteen are worth reading again because we treasure them, or because the story itself is so good that it’s worth to dive into it even though we know how it ends. A bit like watching “A wonderful life” over and over again. You can’t help it.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Right? Christmas isn’t the same without watching about a half dozen favorite movies. You know a book is good when you want to spend that time to revisit it. Thank you for being here!

  14. philsblog01

    I know the feeling! Right now I also have an overflowing Kindle with Ebooks!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Gosh, I wish I could sit on a big front porch with a soft summer breeze and just read and read and read!

  15. kagould17

    We have fewer hard copies than in the old days, but a lot of E-books. I do not often read books more than once, but Patty does. Have a good evening Mary. Allan

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thanks for joining in Allan. I hope you aren’t experiencing wildfires near you. We are getting Canadian smoke today.

      1. kagould17

        We are the lucky province this year Mary, with some 470 mm (18 1/2 inches) of rain in the past 6 weeks. Other provinces have not been so lucky. Ontario, Quebec, New Brunswick and NWT have a lot of fires. About the Canadian smoke….Sorry, Eh! 😁Have a great day. Allan

        1. Mary K. Doyle

          I’m sorry for Canada and the loss of what’s underfoot of these fires. Glad you are safe, Allan.

  16. Awakening Wonders

    I’m with you – curating the bookshelf and letting go of the rest to make space for the best!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Letting go gets easier with age and necessity, doesn’t it, Mary?

  17. johnlmalone

    I reread ‘Slaughter House 5’ recently; think it was the 50th anniversary edition; things were different on Tralfamadore 🙂

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      It’s fascinating to read old books and see old movies, isn’t it, John? We don’t realize how differently we write and create movies today.

      1. johnlmalone

        o, and I’m rreading Tessa Hadley’s ‘After the Funeral’ stories, they are so good, so exquisitely plotted, so deliciously told —

        1. Mary K. Doyle

          So many authors to check out! I will look at her books too, John. Thank you.

      2. johnlmalone

        o, and saw Hitchcock’s ‘Stage Fright’ with sis at the nursing home — they program an old classic — each weekday afternoon — in glorious B&W —

        1. Mary K. Doyle

          Interesting that they play Hitchcock movies in a nursing home. Hmmmm.

          1. johnlmalone

            I felt like booking in already 🙂

  18. vermavkv

    What a beautiful reflection on the lifelong relationship between readers and books. I especially loved the idea that a book can change simply because we have changed. The same pages often reveal new wisdom as our experiences deepen and our perspectives evolve.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Good perspective, Vijay. Thank you for being here.

      1. vermavkv

        You are most welcome.
        Stay happy and keep sharing.

  19. Hazel

    How blessed for those receivers of books. Amazing shelves, Mary.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, sweet Hazel.

  20. joannerambling

    I don’t re-read book very often but sometimes I do

    Once I had a lot of books, not anymore

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      We don’t need to keep a home library anymore. It’s easier to get books and resources online. Thank you for your perspective, Joanne.

  21. Rakesh K. Singh

    There are books I remember by their stories, and others I remember by who I was when I read them.

    Thus, I smiled reading this because I’ve had exactly the same experience. Books I struggled through years ago have become favorites simply because life gave me new context.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you so much for adding your voice to this discussion, Rakesh. I appreciate you.

      1. Rakesh K. Singh

        Thank you, ma’am. I am glad to be part of such a thoughtful conversation. 😊

  22. Swamigalkodi Astrology

    Nice to know

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you!

  23. lenny unencumbered

    I also have overflowing bookshelves. I stopped buying books for many years after opting for Kindle books. Sadly my device became obsolete.
    I then had a huge issue with Amazon refusing to allow me to retrieve my huge Kindle collection.
    So, I’m back to buying physical copies again.
    I rarely, however, reread any books because there’s always new material available.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      All great points, Lenny. I’m sorry about your lost books. That happened to me with music on the old itunes.

  24. Max Muhammad

    Books are really the only throwback left. No more record stores or video stores. Books just are special. Biographys are my main forte though i read a whole lot

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      I also love biographies, Mr Max. I enjoy learning what others did with their time and circumstances. Thank you for commenting, my friend.

  25. Michael Watson PhD

    We went through our books before the move. Now we will be going through again. Sometimes books, once read, just remain good friends, comforting on the shelf.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Great way to look at these treasured books, Michael. Those boxes of books are definitely heavy to move.

  26. Edward Ortiz

    There are only a handful of books I have re-read over the years; mostly, I just go back and check parts of them that I need for writing or a conversation. I try to take inventory every year and take some books to my local library or our community book box. I have three bookshelves, and I’m not planning to buy another one to add more books. I love your reading area!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you for sharing your book management, Edward.

      And I appreciate you liking my little book nook. It’s different than the style of the rest of the house but cozy and meaningful. The lamp was a gift I had given Marshall. My son painted the Girl with the Pearl Earring. The children’s books on the shelves were from my mother’s, my, and my children’s childhood. The blanket on the rocker was made by my mother, who died 27 years ago. And I rocked my babies in that rocker.

      1. Edward Ortiz

        Oh wow, Mary. Thank you so much for describing the room and the personal connection. The painting is absolutely beautiful, and I thought you purchased it. Your son did a superb job!

        1. Mary K. Doyle

          Thank you, Edward. Careful outside with the heat, humidity, and smoke.

          1. Edward Ortiz

            You’re welcome, and yes, way too hot to be outside. Take care, my friend.

  27. ✒️🥣Dorothy’s New Vintage Kitchen

    I seldom read a book more than once which is why I now read the book and bring it to the “little free library” in the village. I know someone will enjoy it, and my house will be less cluttered!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      You are a practical and sharing woman, my friend.

      1. ✒️🥣Dorothy’s New Vintage Kitchen

        With a lot less space than I used to have at the inn!

  28. equinoxio21

    Book-lovers always have this “shelf” problem. When we moved to our new house, I managed to put all my shelves in one room, which then became my “library” (cum office of course).

    I too vowed to not put more shelves. Done! I managed to kee that promise to myself. (and I do re-read often. Since many of my favourite authors are either dead or gettin’ old like me.)

    Every now and then, I take books out and donate them to the French Lycée. They’re delighted, and I have more space for more books…

    Thanks for the post.

    Brian

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      We book lovers are a club that understands one another very well. Thank you for taking the time to read and comment. I welcome you to Midwest Mary and appreciate your presence here.

      1. equinoxio21

        🙏🏻

  29. Lori Pohlman

    Your reading room is so serene, Mary. I love it! I wrote a long comment but my internet wasn’t working properly and it got erased so this one is a poor replacement! Sorry!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      I’m sorry for the inconvenience, Lori. I appreciate your perseverance. Thank you.

      1. Lori Pohlman

        Not your fault at all, Mary! I have problems with internet and, honestly, all technology. 🤓

  30. P. J. Gudka

    I think it’s time for me to let go of some of the books on my bookshelf too. I plan to take a bunch of them when I visit my best friend.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      It’s hard to do, isn’t it Pooja? But it also is kind to pass our books on.

      1. P. J. Gudka

        Yeah, it’s hard to let them go but it makes me happy that someone else will enjoy them too.

  31. Joseph Glidden

    I am a somewhat reformed pack rat, so I find it difficult to let books go.
    When I was much younger I used to collect rare books at yard sales. When I moved the moving company estimated that I had 3500 pounds of hard cover books which they had to wrap individually. The week before my move they had moved a guy who had 10K pounds of law books.

    Sadly all of those books were lost in a fire and the insurance company would only pay a few cents a pound for replacement, so that may be partly why I like to hang onto books. I do reread novels. I have read three different translations of War And Peace and All Quiet On The Western Front. The Mountain And The Valley is one I have read several times because the characters and setting kind of reminds me of the place and people where I grew up.

    I have been looking some computer books from the 90s and early 2000s that I think may be time to get rid of, lol. I have even put them in a box for a future yard sale, so major progress.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      I’m so sorry about the fire, Joseph. I’m sure that was heartbreaking. Yes, books are heavy to move. We book lovers understand each other. Happy Sunday to you, my friend.

      1. Joseph Glidden

        Thank you. I found it to be blessing in disguise and a huge lesson in learning to let go of attachment to physical things and be grateful for health, family and friendship.

  32. Voice Of Rohingya | Anowar Sadak

    I love this. Rereading a book at a different stage of life often reveals new meaning. Donating books so others can enjoy them is a beautiful way to share the joy of reading.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts. Blessings to you.

      1. Voice Of Rohingya | Anowar Sadak

        You’re most welcome 🤗
        Blessings to you too 🙏

  33. The Mindful Migraine Blog

    “overflowing bookshelves” is one of the nicest problems you can have! (good luck) xox

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      LOL. Absolutely, Linda. Have a great week.

      1. The Mindful Migraine Blog

        🌞

  34. Lina Valkema

    I love this paragraph because it resonates with me so much: “Writers are typically readers because we learn so much by reading. And a happy place for us is where we find books, like libraries and bookstores.”

    I have a deep connection with my books too. The thought of donating them is crushing; good on you for having the strength to give them away. Stories are so magical, I can’t imagine parting from them

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Oh, yes, Lina. I understand. Thank you for your thoughts and taking the time to comment. I appreciate you.

  35. TV

    Thank you for this piece, Mary. Your reading space is so serene and beautiful!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you for your kind words, TV. Have a wonderful week.

  36. K Mark Schofer

    I just went through and purged about 500 bucks and it was difficult, but I’m glad someone else gets to read them. We just got done moving and every time I saw a box Marked Books.

    That box is going to be heavy.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Books surely are heavy to move. I understand the sad departure of your treasures, Mark. Perhaps now you have room for new ones.

  37. Anonymous

    I read many of my books more than once, especially stories with recurring characters. It’s rather like meeting up with old friends.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Isn’t that fun? I totally understand your feelings. Thank you so much for commenting.

  38. Dawn Pisturino

    I can so relate to this!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      We can’t help ourselves! Thank you, Dawn.

  39. Garden Bliss

    I have a packed bookcase too, Mary, with lots of classics I can’t seem to part with. Would I re-read their yellowing pages, probably not. Time to donate.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      It’s so difficult to pass on our dear friends, the books on our shelves, isn’t it, Flavia?

      1. Garden Bliss

        It certainly is dear Mary.

  40. Susana Cabaço

    Sometimes we need to “declutter” our treasures, for the jewels that have more value and resonate more with us can radiate throughout. That doesn’t mean, of course, that the ones excluded aren’t of value to others. Well done, Mary. And what an epic end…! It’s always a joy to read from you, my friend. With appreciation, sending light and blessings your way 🙏✨💖🌻🌈

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Susana. I appreciate your feedback–especially when it is positive 🙂 Love to you.

  41. worldphoto12

    BUONA DOMENICA

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Gracie!

      1. worldphoto12

        PREGO

  42. Tash Surles

    The feel of the book in hand and the ability to turn the pages, smell the printed ink and to use crafty or store-bought bookmarks is my reason for having a book collection. Although, I do have a few good reads on Kindke such as Stephen King’s “Pet Semetary”. It just depends on the book. All of my autobiographies and poetry books are hardcopies. It’s just a reader’s preference I suppose.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Oh, I understand, Tash. I love a book in hand, as well. My preference is the ease of holding a paperback. Thank you for commenting!

  43. Rebecca Cuningham

    Amazing you were able to pare down your books. Moves are good inspiration for that process. I tackle my bookshelves every ten years or so and sort and winnow.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Rebecca. We writers and avid readers have a difficult time parting with our treasured books.

Talk to me. I’m curious about your thoughts and comments.