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Better with Age

Wine gets better with age. Do we, as well?

In some ways, this is possible. As I recently learned first-hand, the number of years we’ve lived is not indicative of our health for the remainder of our lives.

I had two serious illnesses over the last dozen years that are now resolved, for the most part, which has improved my health tremendously. I also believe my health will continue to improve. I’m healthier and stronger now than I was ten years ago.

Some of this is due to the distance I now have from intense caregiving and more time to care for my own health. The rest is due to medical intervention with treatment and surgery, as described in my last post.

My point is, don’t give up or think that your health will only decline through the years. With effort and perseverance, you can become stronger, healthier, and happier.

Following is an excerpt from my book, Young in the Spirit. Spiritual Strengthening for Seniors and Caregivers. Check out this book for keys to longevity and ways to improve your health at any age.

“Typically, older people are understood to be no longer attractive and feeble in mind and body. Seniors need care and cannot provide it themselves. This line of thinking disregards the fact that, as with all ages, there are many ways to be old. There is a wide range of capabilities among people in the ’65 and older’ category.

One’s age is not indicative of their ability. An 80-year-old may continue working productively while someone in her 70s needs assistance bathing and walking short distances. Variances also occur throughout one’s senior years. An individual may have several years that require significant support and others that are rich in strength and ability. And those periods of need versus independence may not come in any particular order.

In fact, a good number of today’s seniors are quite active. Many are working part or full-time or participating in regularly scheduled athletic activities such as golf, dance, and swimming. They take good care of themselves and are fully aware of the need to maintain a nutritious diet and seek medical attention when necessary. They are also exposed to health education classes at local hospitals, community colleges, and public libraries.”

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Photo: Cantigny Park, 7/2023

©Mary K. Doyle, 2026

**ACTA Publications is currently offering my book, Tranquility Transformation Transcendence, at a special price of $10. This is a beautiful book to bring to a hostess, someone who is not feeling well, or add to a gift package with a little plant or pretty dish towels.

Responses to “Better with Age”

  1. amorentreestrellas

    Me encanta! Un nuevo seguidor por acá! Te mando un gran abrazo desde argentina!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      ¡Gracias y bienvenido/a! Es un placer conocerte.

  2. kagould17

    A good post Mary. Age is often just a number or a state of mind. Many at 60 act like they are 80 and many at 80 act like they are 60. Constant care and keeping is required to age well. Happy Wednesday Mary. Allan

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      So true, Allan. Keeping agile and healthy comes with work!

  3. Willie Torres Jr.

    Mary, this really encouraged me. It’s so good to see how far you’ve come and how strong you are now. There’s so much hope in that.

    I love how you remind us not to give up on ourselves. Growth doesn’t stop, and God is still working in us through every season. Sometimes we’re actually getting stronger in the places that matter most.

    Your words carry wisdom and real life in them.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Exactly, Willie. God is within us, and we are obligated to care for our whole being. Please, never, ever give up, my friend. You’re never alone in your struggles. Ask, and you will receive.

  4. ✒️🥣Dorothy’s New Vintage Kitchen

    Oh, I definitely think we get better, stronger for sure, and more resilient, which definitely impacts our mental and thus physical health. I know I am healthier than I was ten years ago, and hope to only get better.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Good for you, Dorothy! That is wonderful to hear!

  5. Mags Win

    A nice encouraging post. You have done very well.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Mags. We can improve–with time and effort!

  6. Monkey’s Tale

    Glad to hear you are doing better and feeling younger Mary. Great advice, I try to take care of myself, and know my I don’t look or act my age. 😊 Maggie

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      I’m sure you’re in great shape, Maggie. You certainly get exercise! Thank you for commenting.

  7. Looking for the Light

    Great post. The time it takes to grieve, find yourself, and build a life after intense caregiving is a road that must be traveled.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Yes, that is so true, Melinda. Love to you, my friend.

  8. Ernie ‘Dawg’

    Love the attitude Mary. I to have became more active after being a caregiver. I went through a long depression afterwards and fought to find myself. I have learnt that keeping the mind active is one of the best things I could have done to keep sharp. Exercise is needing more attention but the doc says I’m good and only needs to see me once a year now. So glad to hear you have overcame those illnesses and are marching into the future with such a positive outlook my friend. ✌️💗

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you for your kindness, Ernie. I remember that you cared for your mother. I’m happy you are taking care of yourself. Just a few steps a day can make a difference.

  9. CJ Antichow

    This is so positive Mary! 🤩

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, CJ. I appreciate the feedback.

  10. Rosaliene Bacchus

    Mary, I’m so glad that you’re feeling better and stronger 🙂 ❤

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Rosaliene. All of those prayers have made a difference!

  11. Nancy Homlitas

    You’re absolutely right, Mary. It’s never too late to improve our health. Decades of experience dealing with life’s curveballs help us develop emotional resilience. Not to mention, we finally figure out which foods (healthy or not) are jeopardizing our health. Wonderfully encouraging post! 🙂

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Yes! You know it, dear Nancy. Thank you for adding to these important comments. Hugs to you.

  12. Dawn Pisturino

    When I worked in ortho, some 90-year-olds did better after hip or knee surgery than some 50-year-olds. Older people can be really tough, depending on their history and genetics.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you for your expert observation, Dawn. I appreciate you.

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