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Poem–Stepping Back

Sometimes, a little voice in our heads is on our side, looking out for us, and preventing us from failure. Other times, that voice is trying to sabotage our path to success. The trick is in deciphering when to follow that voice’s guidance.

The popular belief is that we can do anything we want, and be anything we aspire to be. The truth is we all have gifts and limitations.

Not everyone can sing like an angel, paint like Rembrandt, or compose like Beethoven. Yes, if someone wants to be a professional baseball player or entertainer, they can work towards that, but I also believe we need to be realistic.

Money can also present obstacles. My father had the intelligence and desire to be a doctor but not the finances. He needed to work to support himself and his family rather than spend years in expensive schooling.

On the other hand, we have gifts and special talents and can achieve extraordinary levels with hard work and perseverance. If we choose to concentrate our time and efforts on a particular area, there are things we can achieve.

So, then who do we listen to? How do we know when to take that leap and when to look in another direction? Only we can make that decision.

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Stepping Back

My spirit says
“Fly, girl.
Soar above the clouds.”

My mind says,
“Stop, fool.
You can’t do that.”

My body says,
“You don’t have what it takes.
You don’t have wings.”

My total being says,
“Step back from the ledge.
Maybe another day.”

**Poem and Photo (Telluride, CO, 2011) by Mary K. Doyle

Have you seen my book, Tranquility. Transformation. Transcendence? The book features 72 poems and 72 photos from public parks. It makes a great gift for a hostess, a friend in the hospital, or yourself. Grab a beverage, curl up on the sofa, and relax with this beautiful book.

©2024, Mary K. Doyle

Responses to “Poem–Stepping Back”

  1. Kevin

    Magnificent poem and very wise words, Mary. 🙏

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Kevin. Please don’t ever tell the Gorilla he can’t do something. He’s pretty awesome. 🙂

  2. jeanvivace

    Very wisely written and the poem is deep thought work. You perform this very artistically, amazing photo!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Jean. Colorado is an amazing state with gorgeous mountains.

      1. jeanvivace

        🌺😊🌺

  3. Zera

    Your poem is truly touching. It beautifully illustrates the struggle between our dreams and our doubts, while ending on a note of gentle encouragement. It’s a wonderful reminder to take things at our own pace.🤗

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Exactly. I’m so happy you understood my message. Thank you, Zera. It is good to see you on Midwest Mary.

  4. Dorothy’s New Vintage Kitchen

    Lovely Mary! I think we have all felt various degrees of this feeling.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Dorothy. I do think these thoughts are universal. It’s not always easy to recognize our gifts or our limitations.

  5. Cindy Georgakas

    oh for the hazards of the busy mind! nicely crafted, Mary! Of course you can do anything and do❣️

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Cindy. I appreciate your feedback. You’re always so kind and supportive.

  6. Indira

    How true! Everyone can relate to this, Mary!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Indira. I appreciate your feedback.

  7. luisa zambrotta

    Your poem is so profound and relatable, dear Mary 🫶❣️🫶

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, dear Luisa. You are wonderful, my friend.

      1. luisa zambrotta

        Truly my pleasure, dear Mary 🫶

  8. gustavo_horta

    Thank you. Your publication are poems which makes strongest my happines.
    I bem your pardon for my poor english. I don’t praticate it for too long time.
    Thank you again.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Your English is so much better than my Spanish. We will figure it out together. I appreciate your presence here, Gustavo.

  9. gustavo_horta

    love, compassion, solidarity

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Gustavo. What can be better than all of that — love, compassion, and solidarity?

      1. gustavo_horta

        My life principles for long time ago.

  10. Maranda

    Definitely Something i’ve had to learn living with chronic illness and chronic pain

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      I’m sorry you have to deal with that, but that’s the point. We don’t all have the same talents, resources, abilities, opportunities, etc. I sure am enjoying your beautiful art and poetry, Maranda. You certainly have the talent.

      1. Maranda

        Aw thank you so much!

  11. Dawn Pisturino

    But if people don’t at least try to reach their goals, they never will. My father was a frustrated artist because he was told in grade school that it was “impractical.” He never followed his goal, so he was frustrated and unhappy his whole life. If someone is a bad singer, they will discover it soon enough. But at least, they tried. Trying to fly without the right equipment is self-evident. But someone who truly wants to fly can become a pilot or hang glider. Options are available. Your poem is beautiful and true in its essence.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Dawn. Of course, you are right. But it is in knowing when and if to fly, isn’t it? We don’t all have the same talents or resources. But of course, if that urge is there, we need to try.

  12. Dawna

    Beautiful poem Mary and I love the photograph. I’ve always listened to my total being and stepped back, saying maybe another day, but now, I’m ready to listen to spirit and soar high above the clouds. I gotta go for it at least try and go after my dream. Hugs to you my friend.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      I think you are ready, Sweetheart. You have the experience, wisdom, and the words. I hope you find the perfect publisher.

      1. Dawna

        Thank you Mary for you faith in my writing. I think I’m ready too. Actually, I know I’m ready. I won’t lie, I am a little afraid, but I know I can do this.

  13. VanyA 8324

    Nice

  14. Nancy Homlitas

    “Stepping Back” is a very easy poem to relate to as in-been there, done that! 🙂

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Right? Sometimes, it is the best choice. Hugs to you, Nancy.

  15. Valentin

    Amazing poem so well written…Thank you for the words

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Valentin. I appreciate the very nice complement.

  16. Adarsh G

    Beautiful voice and poem

  17. Zera

    🤗🌻

  18. Pooja G

    Loved the post. It’s a skill to know when that voice is helping and when it’s self-sabotage.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Age and experience helps, also. One of the advantages of getting older. 🙂

  19. Drops of Ink

    Very thoughtful and wise words. You always inspire me. 💜🌷

  20. Monkey’s Tale

    So true, you’ve captured the thoughts and fears of most everyone. Wonderfully done. Maggie

  21. LoveLifeHappiness&More💙💙

    So beautiful, Mary! ❤️

  22. Ernie ‘Dawg’

    Beautiful timing foe me to read this. An excellent post, thank you.

  23. Darryl B

    Beautiful ❤️😎

  24. Stephanie

    Wonderful, Mary. ❤

  25. Michele Lee

    Thank you for sharing your book and your voice, Mary. An inspiring message, grounded in truth. 🙏🏻

  26. Garden Bliss

    Love your beautiful words Mary. It is quite a conundrum that voice in our heads – I think we have to follow our instincts at times. I have recently purchased your book on Alzheimers for my cousin who is caring for her husband. I hope it helps her. Thank you for sharing your experiences.

  27. Edward Ortiz

    What a great message, Mary. This part is extremely important: “The popular belief is that we can do anything we want and be anything we aspire to be. The truth is, we all have gifts and limitations.” We deceive ourselves when we set expectations that don’t align with our gifts. When we do that and fail, recovery and refocusing on the achievable can be very difficult for some.

  28. noga noga

    You are truly wonderful. Thank you for your psychologically comforting guidance. Good morning, happiness and wellness, my dear Mary

  29. noga noga

    I wish you luck and have a nice day

  30. Kym Gordon Moore

    Excellent message Mary. Each of us has a purpose, unique gifts and talents to use. I think we are on the same wavelength today with “aspiring to be” messages. Love this my friend. This is powerful! 😍🥂😊

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Kym. I always appreciate your feedback. Hugs to you, my friend.

      1. Kym Gordon Moore

        Sending love and smooches right back at ya Mary. And you are sooooooo very welcome my friend. 🥰💖😊

  31. Robin Ward

    Wonderful and wise, Mary:)

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Robin. I appreciate your comment.

  32. Hitasakhi

    Dream and doubts nicely written great!

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Hitasakhi. There’s always that yin and yang.

  33. Amy

    Beautifully expressed, Mary.
    Yea, It can be a struggle

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Amy. I appreciate you taking the time to comment.

  34. Hermosa

    Your poem is beautiful 😍 lovely

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Hermosa. How are things going for you?

      1. Hermosa

        Everything is okay. Thank you, Mary. Hope you’re doing great?.

        1. Mary K. Doyle

          I’m doing very well, Hermosa. Enjoy the weekend.

          1. Hermosa

            You too

          2. Hermosa

            You too, Mary.

  35. Mindful Mystic (MM)

    Very wise and well-expressed, Mary. Sometimes obstacles prevent us from manifesting in the way we envisioned, but we all have our own unique work in the world. Your book sounds wonderful.

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, MM. I have quite a few books on different topics. You can see more on my website: marykdoyle.com

  36. johnlmalone

    great poem, Mary; that’s how I felt — then a fellow blogger inspired me to put my whole being where my dreams are and go for it ! away timidity 🙂

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      There you go. Soar, John!!

  37. mistermaxxx08

    You are one of a kind, who can’t be lifted by you and your words, truly amazing

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Ah, thank you, dear Mister Maxxx. You are so kind to me.

      1. mistermaxxx08

        You know how you move me

        1. Mary K. Doyle

          Same here, my friend.

          1. mistermaxxx08

            You are very much thought of in a higher light ✨️

          2. Mary K. Doyle

            You give me too much credit, but I truly appreciate you.

          3. mistermaxxx08

            I say what I mean

          4. Mary K. Doyle

            Hugs to you, my friend.

  38. Whispers of Verse

    Amazing poem and amazing voice over

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you! That is wonderful feedback. I appreciate your comment very much.

  39. kagould17

    A good take on it. Instead of saying I can’t, we can say I’ll try. Happy Friday Mary. Allan

    1. Mary K. Doyle

      Thank you, Allan. Have a great week.

  40. Carol anne

    Awesome poem Mary! This was really great! 💐💐

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